Nek Aurat

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)Ne Farmaya :

Duniya Ki Sabse Badi Nemat Nek Aurat Hai."

[Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1467]

Koi Mard apni Biwi se Nafrat na Rakhe

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Nikaah

Nikaah Se Budhape Tak Budhape Se 

Maut Tak Maut Se Jannat Tak Ka Safar 

Tai Karna Hai Tumhare Saath ❤️🌹

Shauhar - Biwi ke liye in baton ka apnana khaas zaroori hai

Shauhar - Biwi ke liye in baton ka apnana khaas zaroori hai

Islam me shauhar aur biwi ke huqooq barabar hain lekin yaqeenan ek jaise nahi hai (they are equal but not similar). Allah ne dono ko alag fitrat par banaya hai, dono ke kaam alag alag hote hain. Kuch huqooq me shauhar bartari hasil karta hai aur kuch huqooq me biwi bartari hasil karti hai. Lekin Shariyatan ke hisab se dono ke huqooq barabar hote hain.

Rishta wahi kamyab hota hai jisko nibhane ki chahat dono taraf se ho. Isliye lihaza Shauhar - Biwi dono ko apne huqooq samjhna chahiye aur uspe amal karna chahiye

Allah Ta'ala Quran me Farmate Hain,

Wo (biwiya) tumhare liye libaas hain aur tum unke liye libaas ho 

(Quran 2:187)

Libaas insan ki zinat badhata hai aur uske aib chhupata hai. Isi tarah shohar aur biwi ko bhi ek dusre ke aib chhupana chahiye aur dusro ke saamne zaahir nahi karne chahiye aur koi galti ho jaaye to narmi ke saath use sahi baat samjhani chahiye aur galat fehmiyo ki wajah se paida hone wale burai (mis understanding) se hamesha bachna chahiye aur ek dusre ki izzat ki hifazat karni chahiye aur ek dusre ki khubiya par nazar rakhna chahiye, khud bhi hamesha aise kaam karne chahiye ke ek dusre ki izzat badhe.

 ۝  Aapas me mohabbat rakhen aur ek dusre par bharosa rakhe aur ek dusre se achhi tarah rahe.

 ۝Ek dusre ki acchaiyo par nazar rakhe aur kamiyo ko aur mamooli galtiyo ko nazar andaz kare.

 ۝ Ek dusre ko sahi raay (sggestion) de aur islam seekhne aur us par amal karne ka bolte rahen. Aur ek dusre ki Akhirat ki fikr karen

 ۝Dusro ke saamne sharm aur haya se pesh aayen, aur aisa koi kaam na karen, jisse ek dusre ki izzat kam ho. Ek dusre ke raaz ya kamiyo ko chhupa kar rakhe, aur dusro ke saamne na bataen.

 ۝ Ek dusre ki jaiz zaroorato ka khayal rakhe. Mard halaal rozi kama kar laaye aur ghar ka kharcha aur apni biwi ki zarooraton ko pura kare Aur Aurat uski halaal kamai se khaane ka aur dusri zaroorato ka khayal rakhe. Aur uske halal rizq par shukr aur sabr kare aur ghar ka, maal ka aur rishtedaro ka aur ghar walo ka khayal rakhe.

 ۝Ek dusre ke liye wafadar hon, shauhar kisi gair aurat ke baare mein ya biwi kisi paraye mard ke baare mein na soche, na usse taalluk (relation) rakhe. Apne humsafar ke samne kisi gair mehram ki tareef naa karen aur naa hi dusron se compare karen aur naa kisi gair mehram se dosti rakhen

 ۝ Ek dusre ke Rishtedaaro ki izzat kare aur unse acchi tarah mile.

 ۝ Kisi bhi musibat, bimari, pareshani mein ek dusre ke saath rahen, aur ek dusre ko himmat dilane waali baat karen. Aur Koi galti ho jaaye to us baat ko aaram se, pyar se samjhayen

 ۝ Aisa koi kaam na kare, jisse ek dusre ke liye dil mein shak paida ho. Agar shauhar ko kuch kaam ya tarika pasand nahi to biwi iska dhyan rakhe, aur agar biwi ko kuch baat pasand nahi to shauhar dhyan rakhe.

 ۝ Allah Ta'ala se ek dusre ke liye dunya aur aakhirat me bhalai ki aur khairo barkat ki aur salaamati ki dua kare. Jab Shauhar Biwi ek dusre ko pyar se dekhte hain to Allah dono ko khush hokar (pyar se) dekhta hai.

 ۝Agar in sab cheezon ko ek tarfa nibhaya jaa raha hai to, rishta ek na ek din kamzoor pad jayega ya toot jayega. Jab dono taraf se nibhaya jaa raha hai to wahi rishta waqt ke sath mazboot hota hai. Shauhar-Biwi ka rishta bahut pyara hota hai, ek dusre ke sath pyar mohabbat se rahiye.

 ۝ Jo nikah karne wale hain, koshish karen ki ek nek Akhlaaq aur deendar insan se karne ki. Nek Akhlaaq hi hain jo zindagi ko khoobsurat banati hai.

Allah Hum sab ko nek humsafar se nawazen.

Allah har Shauhar - Biwi ko ek dusre ko samajhne, ek dusre ki izzat karne, ek dusre ka khayal rakhne, ek dusre se pyar karne wala, fikar karne wala, bharosa kaayam rakhne wala bana de, ek dusre ki Akhirat ki fikr karne wala banade.

Source : @flower_of_jannaah

Haram Rishton Ki Wajah

Haram Rishton Ki Wajah

Zina Ka Aam Hona

Aaj Ke Daur Me Zina Ko Itna Aasan Bna Liya Gaya Hai Ki Hum Ise Gunah Nahi Samjhte Hai. Kisi Na Mehram Ladka/Ladki Se Baat Karna Dosti Rakhna Humare Liye Aam Baat Hai. Ise Hum Gunah Nahi Samjhte Jabki Ye Sab Zina Ki Shuruwat Hai.

Agr Ek Ladki Barik Kapde Ya Saj Sawar Kar Bahar Nikalti Hai Bhale Hi Uski Niyat Kisi Ko Dikhane Ya Attrect Karne Ki Nahi Hai Lekin Use Dekh Kar Koi Ladka Attrect Hota Hai Ya Kuch Bure Khayal Uske Dimag Me Aate Hai Aur Use Wo Pura Kisi Aur Zariye Se Karta Hai.

To Is Gunah Ka Zariya Wo Ladki Bani Jo Behaya Ho Kar Baher Nikli Thi Matlab Wo Zina Ka Zariya Ban Gayi Aur Gunah Ki Haqdar Bhi Isliye.

Allah Ta'ala Ne Qur'an Me Mardo Ko Nichi Nazre Rakhne Aur Aurto Ko Dhank Kar Chalne Ka Hukum Diya Hai.

Zina Ki Shuruwat Nazro Se Hoti Hai.

Allah Ta'ala Qur'an Me Farmate Hai

Zina Ke Kareeb Bhi Na Jao Beshaq Ye Badi Behayai Hai Aur Bahut Hi Buri Rah Hai.

Nikah Ka Mushkil Hona

Jitna Zina Ko Aasan Kar Diya Gaya Hai Itna Hi Nikah Ko Mushkil Bana Diya Gaya Hai.

Example - Jab Kisi Shakhs Ko Bahut Bhook Lagi Ho Aur Haram Khane Ko Uske Bahut Pas Rakha Ho Aur Halal Khane Me Uske Liye Bahut Mushkil Paida Kar Di Jaye Aur Alag Alag Taur Tarike Laga Diya Jaye To Kaun Halal Ko Khane Jayega Jab Use Haram Khana Itni Aasani Se Mil Raha Ho Aur Jab Use Ye Khana Mil Jata Hai To Wo Isse Hi Bhook Mitane Lagta Hai Aur Halal Ka Sochta Bhi Nahi.

Isi Tarah Har Insan Me Khuwahishat (Sexual Desires) Ki Bhook Hoti Hai Aur Jab Ye Puri Nahi Hoti Hai Jo Jo Rasta Aasan Lagta Hai Aur Kareeb Hota Hai Use Hi Apna Lete Hai Aur Gunah Ke Shikar Ho Jate Hai.

Humne Apne Samaj Me Nikah Ko Beintehaa Mushkil Bana Diya Hai. Hazaro Rasme Aur Riwaz Aur Upar Se Itne Mehenge Tariko Se ljaat Kar Liya Hai Ki Agar Koi Chahe Bhi Nikah Karna To Wo In Wajah Se Nikah Ka Khayal Nikal Deta Hai Aur Jab Aadhi Se Zayada Jawani Guzar Jati Hai Jab Nikah Kiya Jata Hai To Ye Khuli Gumrahi Ka Sabab Nahi To Kya Hai?

Free Mixing Ka Hona

Aaj School College Me Education Ke Naam Par Ladke Ladkiyo'n Ko Saath Me Rakhte Hai Jo Khuli Behayai Hai. Shaadiyon Aur Dusre Functions Me Parde Ka Lihaz Nahi Rakha Jata Aur Sab Mixture Kar Diya Jata Hai Jisse Behayai Aur Zina Jaisi Cheez Aam Ho Jati Hai Kyuki Har Akele Mard Aurat Ke Bich Teesra Shaitan Hota Hai.

Ghar Walo Ka Zarurat Se Zayada Chhoot Dena

Parents Ka Apne Baccho Ko Hadd Se Zayada Chhoot De Dena Bhi Zina Ka Sabab Hai Matlab Parents Ka Apne Baccho Ki Koi Rok Tok Na Karna Wo Kitni Hi Der Mobile Use Kare Unke Female/Male Friends Se baat Kare Ya Ghar Se Zayada Der Baher Rahe Is Par Walidain Ka Control Na Hona Bhi Behayai Ka Zariye Hai.

Islam Se Doori

Hum Islam Se Itna Door Ho Chuke Hai Ki Aaj Zina Jaise Gunaho Me Mubtila Hai Kyuki Duniyawi Education Hum Ko Gunah Se Bachana Nahi Sikhati Balki Ulta Hum Ko Gunaho Me Aasani Kar Deti Hai. Lekin Islam Hume Gunah Kya Hai Aur Uska Anjam Kya Hai Usse Bachne Ka Tarika, Sab Kuch Sikhati Hai.

Lekin Aaj Ke Waqt Me Ek Highly Educated Insan Ko Bhi Agar Pucha Jaye Ki Qur'an Ke Kisi Ek Ayat Ka Meaning Batao To Wo Nahi Bata Payega Aur Bahut Se Logo Ko Jo Qur'an Padhna Jak Nahi Aata Islam To Door Ki Baat Hai.

Ye Duniyawi Ilm Sirf Duniya Me Hi Faida Pahucha Sakta Hai Lekin Deeni Ilm Hume Duniya Aur Akhirat Dono Me Kamyabi Ata Kar Sakta Hai. Isliye Islam Ko Jane. Apne Rab Ko Pehchane Jabhi To Hum Zina Jaise Gunaho Se Bach Payenge.

Dua

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala Tamaam Ummat Ko Zina Jaise Gunah Se Mehfooz Rakhe Aur Jo Is Gunah Me Mubtila Hai Unhe Nek Hidayat Ata Kare.

Ameen Summa Ameen

Sathi

Zindgi Me Paisa Hi Sab Kuch Nhi Hota 

Pyar Or Ehsas Krne Wala Sathi Ho 

Toh Aurat Garibi Me Bhi

Malika Jaisi Zindgi Gujar Sakti Hai!

A good life partner

A good Life Partner 

Is a Blessing Of Allah

Biwi k huqooq

Aurto ka Haq Mardo par waisa hi hai jaisa Dastoor ke Mutabiq (Mardo ka haq) Aurato par hai, Al batta mardo ko unn par fazeelat hasil hai.

(Quran 2:228)

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Isi Tarha Allah Ke Rasool (ﷺ) ki Aahadees me farmaya ki,

Aurato se behtar Sulook karo kyunki Aurat pasli se paida ki Gayi hai aur pasli ka sab se zyada tedha hissa woh hai jo uska buland hissa hai.. Agar tu Usey Seedha karne lage ga tou Usey Thodh dega aur agar Chodh dega tou Tedhi hi Rahegi, Lihaza Aurto se Accha Sulooq karo.

(Bukhari 3331)

Aur dastoor ke Mutabiq Tumhari Biwiyo ki khuraaq aur Phoshaaq tumhare Zimme hai. (Hadith: Abu Dawud 1905)

Jis ki Do Biwiya ho aur woh Unn me se Ek ki taraf hi Mayeel (Atract) ho tou woh Qayamat ke Din is Haal me Aayega ke uska Ek Pehlu Jhuka hoga" (Hadith: Abu Dawud 2133)

Albatta woh umoor jinn me adal mumkin na ho jaise Mohabbat aur Dil ki Khushi tou in par khawind par khuch gunah nhi.

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) se phucha gaya ke biwi ka mard par kya haq hai tou aap ne farmaya ke,

Jab tu khana khae tou Usey khana khila aur ja tu Pehne tou Usey bhi Pehnna aur uske Muuh par na Maar, Usey bura bhala Kahe na Uss se Qata Talluq kar magar yeh ke Ghar ke Andar Andar.

 (Abu Dawud 2142)

Yaani kisi baat par Naraaz ho tou Usey Ghar se Dusri jagah na bhagao

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)ne farmaya ke,

Aye Allah! yeh meri taqseem aise muamle me hai jis me mera ikhtyaar hai aur jiss baat me tera ikhtyaar hai, mera nahi uss par mujhey malamat na farmana. 

(Hadith: Abu Dawud 2134)

Agar tum chaaho bhi to apni Biwiyo ke Darmiyaan Adal na kar sakoge.

(Quran; Surah Nisa; 4:129)

Allah Rabbul Izzat Quran-e Kareem me farmata hai:

Aur Biwiyo ke saath Acchi tarah raho saho.

(Quran 4:19)

Miya Biwi Dono Tahajjud padhe

Rasul Paak (ﷺ) Ne Irshad Farmaya

Jab Shahor Raat Ko Apni Biwi Ko Uthaye Phir

Dono Tahajjud padhe 

Dono Ko Ba Kasrat Allah Ka Zikr Karne Wale Mard Aur Aurato Me Likh Diya Jata Hai

(ABU DAWOOD)

Afsos Kya Aaj Aise Shahor Biwi Hai...

True Friend is Your Partner

Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.

Alhamdulillah

You are Exactly what i Always wanted & Prayed for it.

ALHAMDULLILAH Blessed to have You in My Life 💞

Aurat Apne Shauhar ke Ghar aur Uske Bacchon ki Zimmedar hai

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) ne farmaya 

"Aurat Apne Shauhar ke Ghar aur Uske Bacchon ki Zimmedar hai aur Usse Unke Baare me Poocha Jayega."

Sahih Bukhari : 7138

Sahih Muslim: 1829

Apni Biwiyon ke Saath Bhaley Andaaz se raho

Bismillah-Hirrahman-Nirrahim

"Aur Un Aurto (Apni Biwiyoun) ke Sath bhale andaaz me Zindagi basar karo.'

Surah An-Nisa 4:19

कोई मोमिन (मर्द) किसी मोमिना (बीवी) से नफरत ना करे

अल्लाह के रसूल (ﷺ) ने फरमायाः

कोई मोमिन (मर्द) किसी मोमिना (बीवी) से नफरत ना करे,

अगर उसे बीवी की एक बात नापसंद हो तो दूसरी पसंद जरुर आएगी।

सहीह मुस्लिम : 3645

Aurto ka Haq Mardo pe ek barabar pr...

Aurto ka Haq Mardo par waisa hi hai jaisa Dastoor ke Mutabiq (Mardo ka haq) Aurato par hai, Al batta mardo ko unn par fazeelat hasil hai.

(Quran 2:228

Miya Biwi

Miya Biwi Life Achi aur khus khushal bana ni hai to din main sirf ek baar allah taala se sache dil se dua karo. 

Ya Allah taala meri miya biwi life ko hamesha bahetrin. rakhna...

Phir Dekho Allah Taala kya karta hai

Miya Biwi Me Jhagda Karwana

Miya Biwi Me Jhagda Karwana 

Shaitan ka Sabse Pasandida Kaam hai

Sahih Muslim: 2813

Behtareen Sathi

Shohar Ke Liye Biwi Aur Biwi Ke Liye Shohar Se Acha Koi Dost Nahi Hai Kyun Ke Ye Wahid Aise Dost Hai Jo Behtareen Mashwara Denge Halat Ache Ho Ya Bure Dono Ko Sath Milkar Samna Karna Hai 

Agar Apni Biwi Se Wafa Chahte Ho To 

Usse Waqt Do, Mohabbat Do, Bharosa 

Do, Aur Sabse Zyada Usse Izzat Denge 

To Wo Aapke Liye Apni Jaan De Dengi 

Par Kabhi Bewafai Nahi Karengi

Aurat

Ek aurat

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