Sathi

Zindgi Me Paisa Hi Sab Kuch Nhi Hota 

Pyar Or Ehsas Krne Wala Sathi Ho 

Toh Aurat Garibi Me Bhi

Malika Jaisi Zindgi Gujar Sakti Hai!

Islam Mein Mohabbat Aur Rehmat Ka Rishta 🌸

🌸 Biwi aur Shauhar – Islam Mein Mohabbat Aur Rehmat Ka Rishta 🌸

Islam mein biwi aur shauhar ka rishta sirf saath rehne ka nahi, balki ek amanat, zimmedari aur ibadat hai. 

Allah Ta’ala ne is rishte ko mohabbat, rehmat aur sukoon ka zariya banaya hai.

Qur’an mein Allah farmate hain:

“Aur Uski nishaniyon mein se hai ke Usne tumhare liye tumhari hi jins se jode banaye, taake tum unse sukoon pao, aur tumhare darmiyan mohabbat aur rehmat paida kar di.”

(Surah Ar-Rum 30:21)

Biwi shauhar ke liye sukoon hoti hai, aur shauhar biwi ke liye hifazat aur sahara. Jab dono ek dusre ke liye dua ban jaate hain, tab ghar jannat ka ehsaas deta hai.

Islam shauhar ko hukm deta hai ke wo apni biwi ke saath narmi, izzat aur mohabbat se pesh aaye. 

Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:

“Tum mein se behtareen wo hai jo apni biwi ke liye behtareen ho.”

Wahi biwi ke liye bhi Islam rehmat aur samajhdari sikhata hai. Biwi ka adab, sabr aur dua ghar ko barkat se bhar deta hai. Jab biwi shauhar ke liye dua karti hai aur shauhar biwi ki izzat karta hai, to Allah us rishte mein barkat ata karta hai.

Har rishtay mein imtihaan aate hain. Kabhi ghalatfehmi, kabhi gussa, kabhi khamoshi. Lekin Islam humein sikhata hai ke ego se zyada rishta pyara rakho. Maafi, sabr aur dua — ye teen cheezein shadi ko mazboot banati hain.

Biwi aur shauhar agar ek dusre ki kamzori ko chhupa lein, ek dusre ki izzat mehfooz rakhein, aur mushkil waqt mein ek dusre ka haath thaam lein — to Allah khud unke liye raaste asaan kar deta hai.

Sabse khoobsurat baat ye hai ke jab biwi aur shauhar ek saath Allah ke samne jhuk jaate hain, to unka rishta sirf duniya tak nahi rehta, balki aakhirat tak jura rehta hai.

🤲 Dua:

“Ya Allah, har biwi aur shauhar ke rishtay ko mohabbat, rehmat aur sukoon se bhar de. Unke dilon mein sabr, samajh aur ek dusre ke liye izzat paida farma.”

Behtareen Sathi

Shohar Ke Liye Biwi Aur Biwi Ke Liye Shohar Se Acha Koi Dost Nahi Hai Kyun Ke Ye Wahid Aise Dost Hai Jo Behtareen Mashwara Denge Halat Ache Ho Ya Bure Dono Ko Sath Milkar Samna Karna Hai 

Biwi k huqooq

Aurto ka Haq Mardo par waisa hi hai jaisa Dastoor ke Mutabiq (Mardo ka haq) Aurato par hai, Al batta mardo ko unn par fazeelat hasil hai.

(Quran 2:228)

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Isi Tarha Allah Ke Rasool (ﷺ) ki Aahadees me farmaya ki,

Aurato se behtar Sulook karo kyunki Aurat pasli se paida ki Gayi hai aur pasli ka sab se zyada tedha hissa woh hai jo uska buland hissa hai.. Agar tu Usey Seedha karne lage ga tou Usey Thodh dega aur agar Chodh dega tou Tedhi hi Rahegi, Lihaza Aurto se Accha Sulooq karo.

(Bukhari 3331)

Aur dastoor ke Mutabiq Tumhari Biwiyo ki khuraaq aur Phoshaaq tumhare Zimme hai. (Hadith: Abu Dawud 1905)

Jis ki Do Biwiya ho aur woh Unn me se Ek ki taraf hi Mayeel (Atract) ho tou woh Qayamat ke Din is Haal me Aayega ke uska Ek Pehlu Jhuka hoga" (Hadith: Abu Dawud 2133)

Albatta woh umoor jinn me adal mumkin na ho jaise Mohabbat aur Dil ki Khushi tou in par khawind par khuch gunah nhi.

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) se phucha gaya ke biwi ka mard par kya haq hai tou aap ne farmaya ke,

Jab tu khana khae tou Usey khana khila aur ja tu Pehne tou Usey bhi Pehnna aur uske Muuh par na Maar, Usey bura bhala Kahe na Uss se Qata Talluq kar magar yeh ke Ghar ke Andar Andar.

 (Abu Dawud 2142)

Yaani kisi baat par Naraaz ho tou Usey Ghar se Dusri jagah na bhagao

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)ne farmaya ke,

Aye Allah! yeh meri taqseem aise muamle me hai jis me mera ikhtyaar hai aur jiss baat me tera ikhtyaar hai, mera nahi uss par mujhey malamat na farmana. 

(Hadith: Abu Dawud 2134)

Agar tum chaaho bhi to apni Biwiyo ke Darmiyaan Adal na kar sakoge.

(Quran; Surah Nisa; 4:129)

Allah Rabbul Izzat Quran-e Kareem me farmata hai:

Aur Biwiyo ke saath Acchi tarah raho saho.

(Quran 4:19)

Shauhar - Biwi ke liye in baton ka apnana khaas zaroori hai

Shauhar - Biwi ke liye in baton ka apnana khaas zaroori hai

Islam me shauhar aur biwi ke huqooq barabar hain lekin yaqeenan ek jaise nahi hai (they are equal but not similar). Allah ne dono ko alag fitrat par banaya hai, dono ke kaam alag alag hote hain. Kuch huqooq me shauhar bartari hasil karta hai aur kuch huqooq me biwi bartari hasil karti hai. Lekin Shariyatan ke hisab se dono ke huqooq barabar hote hain.

Rishta wahi kamyab hota hai jisko nibhane ki chahat dono taraf se ho. Isliye lihaza Shauhar - Biwi dono ko apne huqooq samjhna chahiye aur uspe amal karna chahiye

Allah Ta'ala Quran me Farmate Hain,

Wo (biwiya) tumhare liye libaas hain aur tum unke liye libaas ho 

(Quran 2:187)

Libaas insan ki zinat badhata hai aur uske aib chhupata hai. Isi tarah shohar aur biwi ko bhi ek dusre ke aib chhupana chahiye aur dusro ke saamne zaahir nahi karne chahiye aur koi galti ho jaaye to narmi ke saath use sahi baat samjhani chahiye aur galat fehmiyo ki wajah se paida hone wale burai (mis understanding) se hamesha bachna chahiye aur ek dusre ki izzat ki hifazat karni chahiye aur ek dusre ki khubiya par nazar rakhna chahiye, khud bhi hamesha aise kaam karne chahiye ke ek dusre ki izzat badhe.

 ۝  Aapas me mohabbat rakhen aur ek dusre par bharosa rakhe aur ek dusre se achhi tarah rahe.

 ۝Ek dusre ki acchaiyo par nazar rakhe aur kamiyo ko aur mamooli galtiyo ko nazar andaz kare.

 ۝ Ek dusre ko sahi raay (sggestion) de aur islam seekhne aur us par amal karne ka bolte rahen. Aur ek dusre ki Akhirat ki fikr karen

 ۝Dusro ke saamne sharm aur haya se pesh aayen, aur aisa koi kaam na karen, jisse ek dusre ki izzat kam ho. Ek dusre ke raaz ya kamiyo ko chhupa kar rakhe, aur dusro ke saamne na bataen.

 ۝ Ek dusre ki jaiz zaroorato ka khayal rakhe. Mard halaal rozi kama kar laaye aur ghar ka kharcha aur apni biwi ki zarooraton ko pura kare Aur Aurat uski halaal kamai se khaane ka aur dusri zaroorato ka khayal rakhe. Aur uske halal rizq par shukr aur sabr kare aur ghar ka, maal ka aur rishtedaro ka aur ghar walo ka khayal rakhe.

 ۝Ek dusre ke liye wafadar hon, shauhar kisi gair aurat ke baare mein ya biwi kisi paraye mard ke baare mein na soche, na usse taalluk (relation) rakhe. Apne humsafar ke samne kisi gair mehram ki tareef naa karen aur naa hi dusron se compare karen aur naa kisi gair mehram se dosti rakhen

 ۝ Ek dusre ke Rishtedaaro ki izzat kare aur unse acchi tarah mile.

 ۝ Kisi bhi musibat, bimari, pareshani mein ek dusre ke saath rahen, aur ek dusre ko himmat dilane waali baat karen. Aur Koi galti ho jaaye to us baat ko aaram se, pyar se samjhayen

 ۝ Aisa koi kaam na kare, jisse ek dusre ke liye dil mein shak paida ho. Agar shauhar ko kuch kaam ya tarika pasand nahi to biwi iska dhyan rakhe, aur agar biwi ko kuch baat pasand nahi to shauhar dhyan rakhe.

 ۝ Allah Ta'ala se ek dusre ke liye dunya aur aakhirat me bhalai ki aur khairo barkat ki aur salaamati ki dua kare. Jab Shauhar Biwi ek dusre ko pyar se dekhte hain to Allah dono ko khush hokar (pyar se) dekhta hai.

 ۝Agar in sab cheezon ko ek tarfa nibhaya jaa raha hai to, rishta ek na ek din kamzoor pad jayega ya toot jayega. Jab dono taraf se nibhaya jaa raha hai to wahi rishta waqt ke sath mazboot hota hai. Shauhar-Biwi ka rishta bahut pyara hota hai, ek dusre ke sath pyar mohabbat se rahiye.

 ۝ Jo nikah karne wale hain, koshish karen ki ek nek Akhlaaq aur deendar insan se karne ki. Nek Akhlaaq hi hain jo zindagi ko khoobsurat banati hai.

Allah Hum sab ko nek humsafar se nawazen.

Allah har Shauhar - Biwi ko ek dusre ko samajhne, ek dusre ki izzat karne, ek dusre ka khayal rakhne, ek dusre se pyar karne wala, fikar karne wala, bharosa kaayam rakhne wala bana de, ek dusre ki Akhirat ki fikr karne wala banade.

Source : @flower_of_jannaah

A good life partner

"A good life partner is a blessing of Allah" means that finding a compatible, loving, and supportive partner in life is not just a matter of personal effort or luck, but a divine favor and gift from Allah. In Islam, marriage is viewed as half of one's faith, and having a righteous partner helps in building a life based on Islamic values, mutual respect, and understanding.

Here’s how this idea can be explained:

1. Spiritual Growth : A good life partner encourages you to grow spiritually, reminding you of your religious obligations, helping you stay on the right path, and supporting you in strengthening your connection with Allah.

2. Emotional Support : In life’s ups and downs, a righteous partner provides emotional support, helping to endure challenges with patience (sabr) and gratitude (shukr). This emotional bond is key to maintaining harmony and peace.

3. Family and Community : A good partner helps in building a strong family based on love, compassion, and shared values. Together, you raise the next generation in an environment of faith, kindness, and morality.

4. Peace and Tranquility (Sakinah) : In Surah Ar-Rum (30:21), Allah describes marriage as a source of peace, love, and mercy between spouses:

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.”

This verse highlights how a good partner brings comfort and peace into one's life, fostering a relationship built on love and mercy, which is a clear sign of Allah’s blessing.

Thus, a good life partner is more than just a companion—he or she is a source of happiness, growth, and guidance, all of which are blessings from Allah meant to make life fulfilling and aligned with divine wisdom.

Miya Biwi

Miya Biwi Life Achi aur khus khushal bana ni hai to din main sirf ek baar allah taala se sache dil se dua karo. 

Ya Allah taala meri miya biwi life ko hamesha bahetrin. rakhna...

Phir Dekho Allah Taala kya karta hai

RAMZAN KI RATON ME APNI BIWIYON SE JIMA KI IJAZAT

"Tumhare Liye Roze Ki Raaton Me Apni Biwiyon Ke Saath Sohbat Karna Halal Kar Diya Gaya Hai."

(Qur'an 2:187)

Haram Rishton Ki Wajah

Haram Rishton Ki Wajah

Zina Ka Aam Hona

Aaj Ke Daur Me Zina Ko Itna Aasan Bna Liya Gaya Hai Ki Hum Ise Gunah Nahi Samjhte Hai. Kisi Na Mehram Ladka/Ladki Se Baat Karna Dosti Rakhna Humare Liye Aam Baat Hai. Ise Hum Gunah Nahi Samjhte Jabki Ye Sab Zina Ki Shuruwat Hai.

Agr Ek Ladki Barik Kapde Ya Saj Sawar Kar Bahar Nikalti Hai Bhale Hi Uski Niyat Kisi Ko Dikhane Ya Attrect Karne Ki Nahi Hai Lekin Use Dekh Kar Koi Ladka Attrect Hota Hai Ya Kuch Bure Khayal Uske Dimag Me Aate Hai Aur Use Wo Pura Kisi Aur Zariye Se Karta Hai.

To Is Gunah Ka Zariya Wo Ladki Bani Jo Behaya Ho Kar Baher Nikli Thi Matlab Wo Zina Ka Zariya Ban Gayi Aur Gunah Ki Haqdar Bhi Isliye.

Allah Ta'ala Ne Qur'an Me Mardo Ko Nichi Nazre Rakhne Aur Aurto Ko Dhank Kar Chalne Ka Hukum Diya Hai.

Zina Ki Shuruwat Nazro Se Hoti Hai.

Allah Ta'ala Qur'an Me Farmate Hai

Zina Ke Kareeb Bhi Na Jao Beshaq Ye Badi Behayai Hai Aur Bahut Hi Buri Rah Hai.

Nikah Ka Mushkil Hona

Jitna Zina Ko Aasan Kar Diya Gaya Hai Itna Hi Nikah Ko Mushkil Bana Diya Gaya Hai.

Example - Jab Kisi Shakhs Ko Bahut Bhook Lagi Ho Aur Haram Khane Ko Uske Bahut Pas Rakha Ho Aur Halal Khane Me Uske Liye Bahut Mushkil Paida Kar Di Jaye Aur Alag Alag Taur Tarike Laga Diya Jaye To Kaun Halal Ko Khane Jayega Jab Use Haram Khana Itni Aasani Se Mil Raha Ho Aur Jab Use Ye Khana Mil Jata Hai To Wo Isse Hi Bhook Mitane Lagta Hai Aur Halal Ka Sochta Bhi Nahi.

Isi Tarah Har Insan Me Khuwahishat (Sexual Desires) Ki Bhook Hoti Hai Aur Jab Ye Puri Nahi Hoti Hai Jo Jo Rasta Aasan Lagta Hai Aur Kareeb Hota Hai Use Hi Apna Lete Hai Aur Gunah Ke Shikar Ho Jate Hai.

Humne Apne Samaj Me Nikah Ko Beintehaa Mushkil Bana Diya Hai. Hazaro Rasme Aur Riwaz Aur Upar Se Itne Mehenge Tariko Se ljaat Kar Liya Hai Ki Agar Koi Chahe Bhi Nikah Karna To Wo In Wajah Se Nikah Ka Khayal Nikal Deta Hai Aur Jab Aadhi Se Zayada Jawani Guzar Jati Hai Jab Nikah Kiya Jata Hai To Ye Khuli Gumrahi Ka Sabab Nahi To Kya Hai?

Free Mixing Ka Hona

Aaj School College Me Education Ke Naam Par Ladke Ladkiyo'n Ko Saath Me Rakhte Hai Jo Khuli Behayai Hai. Shaadiyon Aur Dusre Functions Me Parde Ka Lihaz Nahi Rakha Jata Aur Sab Mixture Kar Diya Jata Hai Jisse Behayai Aur Zina Jaisi Cheez Aam Ho Jati Hai Kyuki Har Akele Mard Aurat Ke Bich Teesra Shaitan Hota Hai.

Ghar Walo Ka Zarurat Se Zayada Chhoot Dena

Parents Ka Apne Baccho Ko Hadd Se Zayada Chhoot De Dena Bhi Zina Ka Sabab Hai Matlab Parents Ka Apne Baccho Ki Koi Rok Tok Na Karna Wo Kitni Hi Der Mobile Use Kare Unke Female/Male Friends Se baat Kare Ya Ghar Se Zayada Der Baher Rahe Is Par Walidain Ka Control Na Hona Bhi Behayai Ka Zariye Hai.

Islam Se Doori

Hum Islam Se Itna Door Ho Chuke Hai Ki Aaj Zina Jaise Gunaho Me Mubtila Hai Kyuki Duniyawi Education Hum Ko Gunah Se Bachana Nahi Sikhati Balki Ulta Hum Ko Gunaho Me Aasani Kar Deti Hai. Lekin Islam Hume Gunah Kya Hai Aur Uska Anjam Kya Hai Usse Bachne Ka Tarika, Sab Kuch Sikhati Hai.

Lekin Aaj Ke Waqt Me Ek Highly Educated Insan Ko Bhi Agar Pucha Jaye Ki Qur'an Ke Kisi Ek Ayat Ka Meaning Batao To Wo Nahi Bata Payega Aur Bahut Se Logo Ko Jo Qur'an Padhna Jak Nahi Aata Islam To Door Ki Baat Hai.

Ye Duniyawi Ilm Sirf Duniya Me Hi Faida Pahucha Sakta Hai Lekin Deeni Ilm Hume Duniya Aur Akhirat Dono Me Kamyabi Ata Kar Sakta Hai. Isliye Islam Ko Jane. Apne Rab Ko Pehchane Jabhi To Hum Zina Jaise Gunaho Se Bach Payenge.

Dua

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala Tamaam Ummat Ko Zina Jaise Gunah Se Mehfooz Rakhe Aur Jo Is Gunah Me Mubtila Hai Unhe Nek Hidayat Ata Kare.

Ameen Summa Ameen

Aurat Apne Shauhar ke Ghar aur Uske Bacchon ki Zimmedar hai

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) ne farmaya 

"Aurat Apne Shauhar ke Ghar aur Uske Bacchon ki Zimmedar hai aur Usse Unke Baare me Poocha Jayega."

Sahih Bukhari : 7138

Sahih Muslim: 1829

Alhamdulillah

The statement "You are exactly what I always wanted & prayed for. Blessed to have you in my life" reflects deep gratitude, love, and appreciation for someone significant in your life. Here's a more detailed explanation of what this means:

1. Fulfillment of Desires and Prayers :

The phrase "You are exactly what I always wanted & prayed for" expresses that the person being addressed is the fulfillment of long-held hopes and dreams. In a spiritual sense, it suggests that the speaker has been making prayers (duas) for a partner or companion who possesses specific qualities, and now that person has come into their life. It reflects both personal desire and trust in divine timing.

2. Acknowledging a Divine Blessing :

"Blessed to have you in my life" shows recognition that this special relationship is not just the result of chance but a blessing from Allah. In Islam, we often express gratitude for the people in our lives because we believe everything good comes from Allah. By saying this, the speaker is acknowledging that having such a person in their life is a form of divine mercy and favor.

3. Gratitude and Appreciation :

This phrase carries a deep sense of gratitude—not just for the presence of the person but also for their role in the speaker's life. The term "blessed" implies that this person has brought joy, peace, and perhaps spiritual growth. It indicates that the relationship has enriched the speaker's life in significant ways, making them feel thankful both emotionally and spiritually.

4. Emotional Connection :

The overall sentiment reflects a deep emotional bond, where the speaker feels that this person completes or enhances their life. It communicates that the relationship has brought them happiness, fulfillment, and contentment—qualities one often seeks in meaningful relationships, especially in a marriage or deep friendship.

5. Spiritual Fulfillment :

For someone with faith, praying for a good life partner or companion and having those prayers answered is a profound spiritual experience. It signifies that Allah has responded to their requests in a way that aligns with their deepest wishes and needs. The use of "Alhamdulillah" (in the elaborated version) emphasizes gratitude to Allah for making this happen.

In essence, this phrase is a beautiful way of expressing love, appreciation, and recognition that the person is a cherished gift from Allah, whose presence brings immense joy and fulfillment.

Treat your wife with Respect

Yes, Islam emphasizes treating one's spouse with kindness, respect, and honor. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

"The best of you are those who are best to their wives."

(Hadith, narrated by Tirmidhi)

This teaching encourages Muslims to show compassion, patience, and care in their marital relationships. Islam promotes the idea that a wife should be treated with love, dignity, and fairness. Both husband and wife are seen as partners in the journey of life, with mutual rights and responsibilities toward each other.

Rizq mein Barkat

" Nikaah krne se Allah Ki taraf se aapke rizq me izafa hojata hai"

Yani, jab aap nikaah karte hain, tou Allah ki taraf se aapke maali aur aashiyaan (rizq) mein izafa hota hai. Ye baat isliye hai kyun ke nikaah Allah ki khushi aur barkat ka zariya hota hai, aur is se insaan ki zindagi mein khushiyan aur rahmat aati hain.

Help with household chores

The Prophet (peace be upon him) lived in a time when men considered themselves superior to women. Aisha explains that he used to milk the goats, mend his sandals, and patch his own clothes. When she was asked, “What did the Prophet use to do in his house?” Aisha replied, “He used to keep himself busy serving his family, and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it.” 

(Bukhari)

Sunnat

Biwi K Saath Padhna

Aur Biwi Ko Quran Padh kar Sunana

Sunnat'e Nabi (ﷺ) Hai

Koi Mard apni Biwi se Nafrat na Rakhe

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Nikaah

Nikaah Se Budhape Tak Budhape Se 

Maut Tak Maut Se Jannat Tak Ka Safar 

Tai Karna Hai Tumhare Saath ❤️🌹

Miya Biwi Dono Tahajjud padhe

Rasul Paak (ﷺ) Ne Irshad Farmaya

Jab Shahor Raat Ko Apni Biwi Ko Uthaye Phir

Dono Tahajjud padhe 

Dono Ko Ba Kasrat Allah Ka Zikr Karne Wale Mard Aur Aurato Me Likh Diya Jata Hai

(ABU DAWOOD)

Afsos Kya Aaj Aise Shahor Biwi Hai...

True Friend is Your Partner

Happy is the man who finds a true friend, and far happier is he who finds that true friend in his wife.

Apni Biwiyon ke Saath Bhaley Andaaz se raho

Bismillah-Hirrahman-Nirrahim

"Aur Un Aurto (Apni Biwiyoun) ke Sath bhale andaaz me Zindagi basar karo.'

Surah An-Nisa 4:19