Look at the hardships of your life. They taught you important lessons, they made you more mature. They made you realize the value of good times. There are countless blessings each hardship brings. Be grateful for them.
A gift in every hardship
Tuesday, May 5, 2026
Leave your doubts for certainty in truth
The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said
"Leave what makes you doubt for what does not make you doubt. Verily, truth brings peace of mind and falsehood Sows doubt."
Ref: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2518
अल्लाह की तरफ तुम लौटाए जाओगे
तुम अल्लाह के साथ कैसे कुफ्र करते हो ? हालांकि तुम मुरदे थे
फ़िर उसने तुम्हें ज़िन्दा किया फ़िर तुम्हें मौत देगा फ़िर वही
तुम्हें ज़िन्दा करेगा फ़िर उसकी तरफ तुम लौटाए जाओगे
How can you disbelieve in Allah when you were
Lifeless and He brought you to Life; then He will cause you to die, then He will bring you [back] to life, and then to Him you will be returned.
“Quran: 02-28”
Respect and take Care of Your Mother
Do you want to be Successful in Life ?
Then respect and take Care of Your Mother ❤️😇
Forgive your enemies
The Prophet's (peace be upon him) own people plotted to kill him. They exiled him from Mecca, tortured and killed his followers, spread false rumors about him, and did their absolute best to end his life and message. Despite all of this, he forgave these people.
So must we!
Sunday, May 3, 2026
The value of being polite
Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said,
Shall I not tell you whom the (Hell) Fire is forbidden to touch ? It is forbidden to touch a man who is always accessible, having polite and tender nature."
[At-Tirmidhi]
In this hadith from At-Tirmidhi, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) teaches that a person who is kind, approachable, and gentle in nature is protected from the punishment of Hellfire. The hadith emphasizes the value of being polite, easygoing, and having a tender demeanor in interactions with others.
These traits, such as being accessible, patient, and kind-hearted, are highly regarded in Islam because they reflect a person’s humility and compassion towards others. Such individuals are considered to embody the Islamic ideal of good character (akhlaq), which plays a crucial role in earning Allah’s pleasure and avoiding the torments of Hell. This hadith encourages believers to strive for kindness and gentleness in their daily lives.
A friend who helps you to obey Allah
"If you have a friend who helps you to obey Allah Hold onto him/her"
The phrase "If you have a friend who helps you to obey Allah, hold onto him/her" highlights the importance of surrounding oneself with good, righteous company. Here’s a deeper explanation:
1. Friendship with Purpose: A true friend is one who not only supports you in everyday matters but also encourages you to stay on the path of righteousness and obedience to Allah. Such a friend will remind you of your faith, inspire you to do good deeds, and help you avoid actions that displease Allah.
2. Positive Influence: We are often influenced by those we spend time with. A friend who helps you stay obedient to Allah is a positive influence, guiding you to make choices that align with your faith, whether it’s through prayer, good character, or avoiding sin.
3. Rare and Valuable: Friends like this are rare and a great blessing. It’s not always easy to find someone who cares about your spiritual well-being. When you do find such a friend, it’s important to recognize their value and hold onto them, meaning to keep that friendship strong and cherish it.
4. Mutual Benefit: The relationship is beneficial for both. Just as your friend helps you stay on the right path, you can help them as well. Together, you can grow in faith, perform good deeds, and seek Allah's pleasure.
In essence, this statement emphasizes the significance of righteous companionship. Such a friend is a blessing, and it's crucial to nurture and preserve that bond for both your worldly life and the Hereafter.
Guidance from Allah
In Islam, the belief is that without guidance—primarily from Allah through the Qur'an and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)—humanity would be lost both in this life and the hereafter. The Qur'an is seen as a source of divine wisdom and a guide for leading a righteous life, while the Hadith (the sayings and actions of the Prophet) further clarify how to implement these teachings.
Guidance from Allah helps believers distinguish between right and wrong, leading to moral, ethical, and spiritual well-being. Without this guidance, many believe that humans would be spiritually lost, leading to eternal consequences in the afterlife, such as being deprived of Jannah (Paradise).
Baap ka Kirdar Aulad ki Tarbiyat me
J). Tarbiyat ka 10th marhala :
Baap ka Kirdar Aulad ki Tarbiyat me
Aulaad ki tarbiyat me sirf Maa ka hi Nahi balki Baap ka bhi ek Aham Kirdar hai. lekin Maa se jara Mukhtalif hai. Maa ka role ye hai ke “ke dekho beta tum ye sikh jao, agar tum aisa nahi karoge tou mai tumhare walid se tumhari shikayat karungi,. fir tumhe mare tou mujhe na kehna kuch.”
Tou walid sirf Nigah Daudane par rahenge baccho par “ke kya hua beta tumhara subha se kitni baat tumne apni walida ki nahi suni.” is tarha se samjhao usey , yahi aapka aham Role hoga
Lekin afsos ki baat hai ke Aaj bohot se martaba dekha jata hai ke Walid (baap) apna role ada nahi karte balki jakar Baccho ko Jyada bigaad detey hai,.. “kaha hai mera baccha, Subha se nahi dikha, kis kis ko Maara? bohot accha kiya” Subhan’Allah.
Baccha bolta hai Accha! Baap se tou strong support mil raha hai mujhe. ab mai kuch bhi kar ke aau tou Baap ladne ke liye tayyar hai meri taraf se.
Yaad rakhiye “Jin Ghar me Baap Baccho ko aise kaamo me support nahi karte un Ghar ke Bacche bahar ladna bhi pasand nahi karte, kyunki unhe maloom hai ke agar hum ladenge tou Baap ulta hume hi pitega.” Aur jin ghar me Baap hi kehta hai ke “Jao ladho! hum tumhare piche khade hai..” is tarha se targib dete hai galat kaamo ke liye wo Bacche bhi kaise Gundey nikaltey hai aur Baadme Baap ko bhi thoktey aur maarte hai ,.. kyun tou usne tarbiyat hi yahi di Apne Bacche ko.
✦ Baap ki Zimmedari :
Lihaja Baap ka role Aulad ki Tarbiyat me hai lekin mukhtalif hai maa ke mukable me. Maa ka role ye hai ke wo teacher hai jo sikhati rahengi, aur Baap ka role Examiner ka hai jo aa kar test lega ka.
Jaise ke “kya kya sikha aaj ?,.. kya hua kaise raha tumhara muamla dinbhar ka ?,.. koi galat kaam tou nahi kiya aaj ?,.. Nasihat suni maa ki ?,.. School aur tuition gaye they ? ,. Arbi ki kitni tayyari hui ? ,.. falah aur falah is tarha sikhana beharhaal Baap ki Zimmedari me se hai.
Maa ki tarbiyat ke baad bacche ke liye 2 hi log hai. Ek Baap aur Dusra Ustad (Teacher). Ye do log hai jo iski tarbiyat Ghar se bahar karenge.
Jaisa ke tum yaha ja rahe ho tou aisa jao,.. logon ko Salam karo Beta,.. Masjid aise jaya karo,.. Saff me aise khadey raha karo,.. logon ko taklif na dena,.. padosiyo ko mat satana. is tarha se bahar ka role Baap ada karega aur uskey teacher, ustad ada karenge. ye do log ab aham Shakhsiyat hai Maa ke baad Zindagi me.
Tou jaha Maa Ghar me tarbiyat kar rahi hai, Kalimaat sikha rahi hai, usi tarha Baap usey bahar ke Aadab aur Akhlaq Sikhayega.
۞ Luqman (Alaihi Salam) ki Apne Bete ko Nasihate Baap ke liye Namuna hai :
Surah Luqman me Aap gour kijiye ke kya nasihate karte hai Luqman (Alaihi Salam) apne bete ko:
" Aye mere bete! Allah ki hi Ibadat karna, uske sath kisiko Sharik na thehrana, aur Namaz qayam karna, Roza rakhna,.. Takabbur mat karna, aur yaad Rakhna ke tum Gunaah chahe ek Patthar ke Andar karo ! Allah usko logon ke samne Zahir karega, khule chupe koi burayi na karna".
– (Mafhoom-e-Quran; Surah Luqman)
♥ SubhanAllah! tou Luqman (Alaihi Salam) ki Nasihate ek mukaam rakhti hai ke waisa role ada karey walid hazraat apni aulad ki tarbiyat me.
To be continue …
Aurat Ko Parda Kis Se Karna Hai ?
Aurat Ko Parda Kis Se Karna Hai ?
Aurat per parda behad zaruri hai lekin aaj logo ko bilkul pata nahi k kis se parda karna behad zaruri hai
Har Gair Mehram Mard Khwa Ajnabi Ho Khwa Ristedaar Bahar Rehta Ho Ya Ghar Ke Andar Har Ek Se Parda Karna Aurat Par Farz Hai.
Han Un Mardo Se Jo Aurat Ke Mehram Hon Unse Parda Karna Aurat Par Farz Nahi. Jaise Baap, Dada, Chacha, Mamu, Nana, Bhai, Bhatija, Bhanja, Pota, Nawasa, Khusr (father-in-law) In Logon Se Parda Karna Jaruri Nahi Hai.
Bhot se logo ki soch hai k dewar se parda nahi bhi kare toh koi masla nahi, bhot se gharo me dewar k sath bila zarurt baat mazak kiya jata hai
Dewar Aurat Ke Haq Me Esa Hi Khatarnak Hai Jaise Mout. Aur Aurat Ko Dewar Se Isi Tarah Door Bhagna Chahiye Jis Tarah Log Mout Se BhagTe Hain.
(Mishkat Shareef, jild:2,Safa: 268)
Jo Log kahte hai hum khule mijaz ke hai toh
yeh ek baar zarur padhe. dewar se hasi mazak aur Gair zaruri baat krna islam bilkul pasand nahi karta
Kuch gharo me Ye Bohat Hi Galat Khilafe Shariat Riwaj Hai Ki Auraten Apne Dewar Se Bilkul Parda Nahi Karti Balki Dewaro Se Hansi Mazak Aur In Ke Sath Hatha Payi Tak Karne Ko Bura Nahi Samajti.
Halan Ke Dewar Aurat Ka Mehram Nahi Hai Is Liye Dusre Tamam Gair Mehram Mardon Ki Tarah Aurton Ko Dewaron Se Parda Karna Farz Hai Balki Hadees Shareef Me Toh Yaha Tak Dewaron Se Parde Ki Takeed Hai Ki...
Chacha ka beta, mamu ka beta khala ka beta, phuphun ka beta bhi ladki k liye Gair Mahram hai iss se parda lazmi hai.
Yaha humre gharo me inn ke sath ladkiya hasi mazak Karti hai be parda samne aajati hai, na sar per Duppatta hota hai na nigho me sharm o haya
Inn sab se bhi parda lazmi hai yeh bhi dusre gair mahram ki hi tarah hai. lehaza bila zarurt in se baat na kare toh bahter hoga.
aaj ka mahol itna khaternak naak hogaya k imaan ko sambhale rakhna muskil hogaya hai
shadiyo me dewar kursiya Khubsurat pardo se sazi hui hai aur aurate be parda aaram se ghum phir rahi hai
yaha tak dekha gaya k dulhan ki bahene dulhe ke bhai se hasi mazak aur close hojati hai
Allah raham kare hmre halat per
Nikkah toh sunnat hai ek taraf sunnat toh ada ki jarahi hai dusri taraf gunah pe gunah
Ladkiyo se guzarish hai iss gunah se khudko bachaye aur durso ko bhi salah dijiye
Ladko ko bhi chahiye nigha niche rakhe apko parde ka hukum nahi hai lekin nigha niche rakhe, nigah niche rahegi toh gunah bhi kam honge
ladko ko bhi chahiye ke wo apne bheno aur
ghar k aurto ko parde me rahne ki sakht
takid karetake wo iss gunah se bache
ALLAH HUM SABKO NEEK HIDAYAT AATA FARMAYE.....
Ameen
Saturday, May 2, 2026
Chehre par noor chahte ho toh...
"Agar chehre par noor chahte hai to raat ko tahajjud padha kre"
Allah se Baat
Allah se Baat
Andheri Raat Ke Aansu ALLAH Se
Baat Karte Hai Lehaja Dua Kiya Kare !!
Miya Biwi Dono Tahajjud padhe
Rasul Paak (ﷺ) Ne Irshad Farmaya
Jab Shahor Raat Ko Apni Biwi Ko Uthaye Phir
Dono Tahajjud padhe
Dono Ko Ba Kasrat Allah Ka Zikr Karne Wale Mard Aur Aurato Me Likh Diya Jata Hai
(ABU DAWOOD)
Afsos Kya Aaj Aise Shahor Biwi Hai...
