Be gentle with your wife

               Be gentle with your wife

                           It's Sunnah

Be gentle 

"…And live with them in kindness…" (Quran 4:19)

Allah instructs every men to be nice to their wives and to treat them well to the best of their ability, In islam the relationship between husband and wife is a strong bond to be nurtured with kindness, love and mercy.

When you read about the Prophet’s behaviour towards of his wives, you will be amazed by the great level of care, gentleness, love and compassion he showed them.

Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) Sayings About Wives   : Ibn `Abbas R.A narrated, the Prophet PBUH said.....

* The best among you is the best towards his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives. (Ibn Majah) - 

* The most perfect Muslim in the matter of faith is one who has excellent behavior; and the best among you are those who behave best towards their wives.

* -O People! fear Allah with regard to your wives. You have taken them into your possession with the permission of Allah. 

* By assisting your wives in their household matters you men receive the reward of sadaqah.

* - Women are part of men.

* When you eat, feed her and when you dress, dress her; do not smite her across the face and do not boycott her but within the house. - 

* O Man! there is reward for you even in having sexual relations with your wife. 

* Conjugal relations with your wife is a sadaqah. - 

* If you spend an amount you will be rewarded for it, even when you lift the morsel to your wife's mouth.

💕 She Deserves the BEST Treatment

“The most complete of the believers in faith, is the one with the best character. And the best of you are those who are best to their women.”

(At-Tirmidhi and authenticated by Al-Albani)

“The best among you is the best towards his wife, and I am the best of you to my wives.”

 (Ibn Majah and authenticated by Al-Albani)

“A believer must not hate a believing woman (i.e., his wife); if he dislikes one of her traits he will be pleased with another.” 

(Muslim)

The world is but a (quick passing) enjoyment; and the best enjoyment of the world is (to have) a pious wife.” 

(Muslim)

"Indeed, I will inflict difficulties on those of you who squandered the rights of two weak groups: (ie) orphans and women." 

(Narrated by Ibn Majah no. 3678, al- Albani in Ash-Shahihah no. 1015)     

Advice : Help the wife in the household work and do not criticize the shortcomings.

"O Umm al-muminin, what did the Prophet do when He is with you (in your house)?" Ayesha answered, "He does what one of you does when he is helping his wife. He rubs his sandals, sews his clothes and lifts water in a bucket." (Reported by Ibn Hibban no: 6406)

 * Avoid arguments or disputes with wives.

 "I will guarantee a house on the edge of heaven for anyone who leaves the debate even though he is right." 

(Narrated by Abu Daud no. 4800 and Al-Albani in Shahihul jami no.1464)

THIRTY (30) WAYS ON HOW TO TREAT YOUR WIFE IN ACCORDANCE TO ISLAM. 

1. Make her feel secure, don't threaten her with divorce. 

2. Give sincere Salams. 

3. Treat her gently, as fragile vessel. 

4. Advise in private, at the best time, in the best way and atmosphere. 

5. Be generous with her. 

6. Warm the seat for her, you will warm her heart. 

7. Avoid anger. 

8. Be in (Wudhu) ablution at all times. 

9. Don't be rigid or harsh-hearted or you will be broken. 

10. Be a good listener. 

11. Yes for flattery. No for arguing. 

12. Call your wife with the best names, cute nicknames, and names she loves to hear. 

13. A pleasant surprise.

14. Preserve and guard the tongue. 

15. Expect, accept, and overlook her shortcomings. 

16. Give sincere compliments. 

17. Encourage her to keep good relations with her family. 

18. Speak of the topic of her interest. 

19. Overlook small things, don't nitpick. 

21. Expect and respect her jealousy. 

22. Be humble.

23. Help her love your relatives, but don't try to force her. 

24. Remember your wife in (Du'a) prayers. 

25. Leave the past for Allah, don't dwell on, dig into, or bring it up. 

26. Don't act as if you are doing her a favor by working or providing, Allah is the Provider, the husband is the carrier of the sustenance to the family.

27. Take (Shaitan) Devil as your enemy, not your wife. 

28. Put food in your wife's mouth. 

29.Treat your wife like she is the most precious pearl that you want to protect. 

30. Show her your smile. 

May Allah (SWT) make it easy for all husbands to practice these tips. Ameen.

Islam has given her a great and prestigious elevation. Yes she deserves love, care and affection. She deserve the best treatment. Islam teaches us many ways to keep her love. Express your love just like our Prophet PBUH has taught us.

Thanks 😊

Even You recite the Qur'an in the lap of one's own menstruating wife

Hadith

Narrated `Aisha : 

The Prophet (ﷺ) used to lean on my lap and recite Qur'an while I was in menses.

Sahih al-Bukhari 297

In-book : Book 6 Hadith 4

Hadith

حَدَّثَنَا أَبُو نُعَيْمٍ الْفَضْلُ بْنُ دُكَيْنٍ، سَمِعَ زُهَيْرًا، عَنْ مَنْصُورٍ ابْنِ صَفِيَّةَ، أَنَّ أُمَّهُ، حَدَّثَتْهُ أَنَّ عَائِشَةَ حَدَّثَتْهَا أَنَّ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم كَانَ يَتَّكِئُ فِي حَجْرِي وَأَنَا حَائِضٌ، ثُمَّ يَقْرَأُ الْقُرْآنَ‏.‏

The Prayer

Urwa said that A'isha, the wife of the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace used to pray asr while the sunlight was pouring into her room, before the sun itself had become visible (i.e. because it was still high in the sky).

English book : Book 1, Hadith 2

Muwatta Malik

Express love towards your wife

1400 years ago, the Prophet (peace be upon him) set very high standards for the Muslim men.

He would help his wives in daily chores, he would leave no stone unturned in expressing love towards his wives. He would drink from the same place Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) drank from. He would be playful with them. He would put morsels of food in their mouths. The examples are countless. The question is - do you follow his example?

ख़ुदा नेकी करने वालों को दोस्त रखता है

और ख़ुदा की राह में ख़र्च करो और अपने हाथ जान हलाकत मे न डालो और नेकी करो बेशक ख़ुदा नेकी करने वालों को दोस्त रखता है

Sura Al-Baqarah, Ayah 195"

*"और ख़ुदा की राह में ख़र्च करो और अपने हाथों को हलाकत में न डालो, और भलाई करो। बेशक, अल्लाह भलाई करने वालों को पसंद करता है।"*

This verse encourages believers to spend for the cause of Allah and avoid actions that could lead to self-destruction. It also highlights the importance of doing good deeds, as Allah loves those who are kind and righteous.

** Surah Al-Baqarah, Ayah 195 (Qur'an 2:195) **:

Good Words

He who believes in Allah & the Last Day should either utter Good Words or better Keep Silence 

The phrase you shared is a well-known hadith that teaches the importance of speaking wisely or remaining silent. It is recorded in Sahih al-Bukhari and Sahih Muslim and is one of the most profound sayings of the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) regarding speech and personal conduct.

In Arabic, the hadith is: "Man kāna yuʾminu billāhi wa-l-yawm al-ākhir fal-yaqul khayran aw liyasmut" (من كان يؤمن بالله واليوم الآخر فليقل خيرا أو ليصمت)

Translation: "Whoever believes in Allah and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent."

Key Lessons:

1. Wisdom in Speech: The hadith emphasizes that one should carefully consider their words before speaking. If their words do not bring benefit or goodness, it is better to remain silent.

2. Control of Tongue: In Islam, controlling one's speech is seen as a form of self-discipline. Idle talk, gossip, or harmful speech can lead to sin, and this hadith guides believers to avoid such pitfalls.

3. Accountability: The mention of belief in Allah and the Last Day indicates that our words and actions will be accounted for in the Hereafter, so it's important to speak responsibly.

This hadith is often cited in discussions about maintaining good manners and ethical speech in Islam. 

Righteous will be in Pleasure

Indeed, the Righteous will be in pleasure.

Al-Quran 82:13

This verse is from Surah Al-Infitar (Chapter 82, Verse 13) of the Quran.

 It refers to the ultimate reward for the righteous, those who have lived a life of faith and good deeds, promising them eternal happiness and bliss in the hereafter.

If you're reflecting on the meaning of this verse, it's a reminder of the positive outcome for those who follow the path of righteousness. 

This verse, "Indeed, the righteous will be in pleasure" (Quran 82:13), comes from Surah Al-Infitar (The Cleaving), which focuses on the Day of Judgment, the accountability of human deeds, and the final reward or punishment based on one's actions.

Deeper Meaning and Context:

The verse describes the fate of the righteous (Al-Abrar), those who live according to the guidance of Allah, maintain faith, and perform good deeds. In Islamic teachings, righteousness isn't limited to outward acts of worship like prayer and fasting but encompasses a lifestyle of kindness, honesty, justice, and compassion towards others.

The term "pleasure" (Na'eem) used in this verse implies much more than simple joy or happiness. It refers to the eternal and perfect state of bliss in Paradise, free from any hardship, sadness, or suffering. The pleasure mentioned is both spiritual and physical, encompassing every aspect of a person's being, as Paradise is described as a place of unimaginable delights prepared for the righteous.

The Concept of Reward for the Righteous:

Islam teaches that those who follow the path of righteousness will be rewarded in the Hereafter with pleasures that far surpass any joy they might experience in this world. Some scholars suggest that this verse emphasizes that the righteous will have peace, both in terms of physical enjoyment and emotional or spiritual fulfillment.

In contrast to the punishment prepared for the disbelievers or wrongdoers (which is mentioned in other verses of the same Surah), this verse highlights the eternal reward of those who remained steadfast in their faith and actions. The pleasures of Paradise, according to other verses in the Quran, include gardens beneath which rivers flow, the company of the pure, and the most important reward: the satisfaction of Allah and His eternal pleasure with them.

Reflection for Believers:

This verse serves as a source of motivation and hope for believers. It reminds them that the trials and challenges faced in this world for the sake of righteousness and staying true to one's faith will not be in vain. Allah is fully aware of everyone's actions, and ultimate success lies with Him.

In addition, this verse underscores the Quranic theme of accountability and recompense, where everyone will be judged fairly based on their deeds and rewarded or punished accordingly.

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