Salaam Allah Ke Naamo Me Se Ek Naam Hai

Salaam Allah Ke Naamo Me Se Ek Naam Hai

 Mafhoom-e-Hadees : Abdullah Bin Masud (RaziAllahu Anhu) Se Riwayat Hai Ki, 

Nabi-e-Rehmat (Sallallahu Alaihay Wasallam) Ne Irshaad Farmaya - "Salaam Allah Ke Naamo Me Se Ek Naam Hai Jisko Allah Ne Zameen Par Utaara Hai. 

Lihaza Usko Aapas Me Khub Failao Qunki Musalman Jab Kisi Qoum Par Guzarta Hai Aur Unko Salaam Karta Hai We Usko Jawaab Dete Hai, 

Tou Unko Salaam Yaad Dilane Ki Wajah Se Salaam Karne Walo Ko Uss Qaum Par Ek Darja Fazilat Hasil Hoti Hai Aur Agar We Jawaab Nahi Dete Hai Tou 

Farishte Jo Insan Se Behtar Hai Usko Salaam Ka Jawaab Dete Hai". -

(Mafhoom: Tabrani, Targib, Bajjar)

Biwi k huqooq

Aurto ka Haq Mardo par waisa hi hai jaisa Dastoor ke Mutabiq (Mardo ka haq) Aurato par hai, Al batta mardo ko unn par fazeelat hasil hai.

(Quran 2:228)

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Isi Tarha Allah Ke Rasool (ﷺ) ki Aahadees me farmaya ki,

Aurato se behtar Sulook karo kyunki Aurat pasli se paida ki Gayi hai aur pasli ka sab se zyada tedha hissa woh hai jo uska buland hissa hai.. Agar tu Usey Seedha karne lage ga tou Usey Thodh dega aur agar Chodh dega tou Tedhi hi Rahegi, Lihaza Aurto se Accha Sulooq karo.

(Bukhari 3331)

Aur dastoor ke Mutabiq Tumhari Biwiyo ki khuraaq aur Phoshaaq tumhare Zimme hai. (Hadith: Abu Dawud 1905)

Jis ki Do Biwiya ho aur woh Unn me se Ek ki taraf hi Mayeel (Atract) ho tou woh Qayamat ke Din is Haal me Aayega ke uska Ek Pehlu Jhuka hoga" (Hadith: Abu Dawud 2133)

Albatta woh umoor jinn me adal mumkin na ho jaise Mohabbat aur Dil ki Khushi tou in par khawind par khuch gunah nhi.

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) se phucha gaya ke biwi ka mard par kya haq hai tou aap ne farmaya ke,

Jab tu khana khae tou Usey khana khila aur ja tu Pehne tou Usey bhi Pehnna aur uske Muuh par na Maar, Usey bura bhala Kahe na Uss se Qata Talluq kar magar yeh ke Ghar ke Andar Andar.

 (Abu Dawud 2142)

Yaani kisi baat par Naraaz ho tou Usey Ghar se Dusri jagah na bhagao

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)ne farmaya ke,

Aye Allah! yeh meri taqseem aise muamle me hai jis me mera ikhtyaar hai aur jiss baat me tera ikhtyaar hai, mera nahi uss par mujhey malamat na farmana. 

(Hadith: Abu Dawud 2134)

Agar tum chaaho bhi to apni Biwiyo ke Darmiyaan Adal na kar sakoge.

(Quran; Surah Nisa; 4:129)

Allah Rabbul Izzat Quran-e Kareem me farmata hai:

Aur Biwiyo ke saath Acchi tarah raho saho.

(Quran 4:19)

Achhi Sehat Ki Dua

Achhi Sehat Ki Dua

As alul'lahal Azeem 

Rabb'al Arshil Azeem aan Yash'fiyak

 Nabi (ﷺ) Ne Farmaya Bimar Shaks is Dua ko 7 Martaba Padhe Allah Ta'ala uski Bimari Dur Farma Kar Achi Sehat Denge,(maut ke alawa baki bimariyo se Allah hifazat karenge )

 (At-Tirmidhi)

Allah Ki Raah Mein me Kharch Karo

Allah Ne Farmaya 

Jo Kuch Humne Tumhe Diya Hai Usme Se Kharch Karo (Allah Ki Raah Mein) Isse Pehle Ki Tum Mein Se Kisi Ki Maut Aa Jaye

Qur'an | 63:10

A gift in every hardship

Look at the hardships of your life. They taught you important lessons, they made you more mature. They made you realize the value of good times. There are countless blessings each hardship brings. Be grateful for them.

Leave your doubts for certainty in truth

The Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said

"Leave what makes you doubt for what does not make you doubt. Verily, truth brings peace of mind and falsehood Sows doubt."

 

Ref: Sunan al-Tirmidhī 2518

अल्लाह की तरफ तुम लौटाए जाओगे

तुम अल्लाह के साथ कैसे कुफ्र करते हो ? हालांकि तुम मुरदे थे

फ़िर उसने तुम्हें ज़िन्दा किया फ़िर तुम्हें मौत देगा फ़िर वही

तुम्हें ज़िन्दा करेगा फ़िर उसकी तरफ तुम लौटाए जाओगे 

How can you disbelieve in Allah when you were

Lifeless and He brought you to Life; then He will cause you to die, then He will bring you [back] to life, and then to Him you will be returned.

“Quran: 02-28”

Respect and take Care of Your Mother

Do you want to be Successful in Life ?

Then respect and take Care of Your Mother ❤️😇

Forgive your enemies

The Prophet's (peace be upon him) own people plotted to kill him. They exiled him from Mecca, tortured and killed his followers, spread false rumors about him, and did their absolute best to end his life and message. Despite all of this, he forgave these people. 

So must we!

The value of being polite

Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, 

Shall I not tell you whom the (Hell) Fire is forbidden to touch ? It is forbidden to touch a man who is always accessible, having polite and tender nature."

[At-Tirmidhi]

In this hadith from At-Tirmidhi, the Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) teaches that a person who is kind, approachable, and gentle in nature is protected from the punishment of Hellfire. The hadith emphasizes the value of being polite, easygoing, and having a tender demeanor in interactions with others.

These traits, such as being accessible, patient, and kind-hearted, are highly regarded in Islam because they reflect a person’s humility and compassion towards others. Such individuals are considered to embody the Islamic ideal of good character (akhlaq), which plays a crucial role in earning Allah’s pleasure and avoiding the torments of Hell. This hadith encourages believers to strive for kindness and gentleness in their daily lives.

A friend who helps you to obey Allah

"If you have a friend who helps you to obey Allah Hold onto him/her"

The phrase "If you have a friend who helps you to obey Allah, hold onto him/her" highlights the importance of surrounding oneself with good, righteous company. Here’s a deeper explanation:

1. Friendship with Purpose: A true friend is one who not only supports you in everyday matters but also encourages you to stay on the path of righteousness and obedience to Allah. Such a friend will remind you of your faith, inspire you to do good deeds, and help you avoid actions that displease Allah.

2. Positive Influence: We are often influenced by those we spend time with. A friend who helps you stay obedient to Allah is a positive influence, guiding you to make choices that align with your faith, whether it’s through prayer, good character, or avoiding sin.

3. Rare and Valuable: Friends like this are rare and a great blessing. It’s not always easy to find someone who cares about your spiritual well-being. When you do find such a friend, it’s important to recognize their value and hold onto them, meaning to keep that friendship strong and cherish it.

4. Mutual Benefit: The relationship is beneficial for both. Just as your friend helps you stay on the right path, you can help them as well. Together, you can grow in faith, perform good deeds, and seek Allah's pleasure.

In essence, this statement emphasizes the significance of righteous companionship. Such a friend is a blessing, and it's crucial to nurture and preserve that bond for both your worldly life and the Hereafter.

Guidance from Allah

In Islam, the belief is that without guidance—primarily from Allah through the Qur'an and the teachings of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)—humanity would be lost both in this life and the hereafter. The Qur'an is seen as a source of divine wisdom and a guide for leading a righteous life, while the Hadith (the sayings and actions of the Prophet) further clarify how to implement these teachings.

Guidance from Allah helps believers distinguish between right and wrong, leading to moral, ethical, and spiritual well-being. Without this guidance, many believe that humans would be spiritually lost, leading to eternal consequences in the afterlife, such as being deprived of Jannah (Paradise).

Baap ka Kirdar Aulad ki Tarbiyat me

J). Tarbiyat ka 10th marhala :

Baap ka Kirdar Aulad ki Tarbiyat me

Aulaad ki tarbiyat me sirf Maa ka hi Nahi balki Baap ka bhi ek Aham Kirdar hai. lekin Maa se jara Mukhtalif hai. Maa ka role ye hai ke “ke dekho beta tum ye sikh jao, agar tum aisa nahi karoge tou mai tumhare walid se tumhari shikayat karungi,. fir tumhe mare tou mujhe na kehna kuch.”

Tou walid sirf Nigah Daudane par rahenge baccho par “ke kya hua beta tumhara subha se kitni baat tumne apni walida ki nahi suni.” is tarha se samjhao usey , yahi aapka aham Role hoga

Lekin afsos ki baat hai ke Aaj bohot se martaba dekha jata hai ke Walid (baap) apna role ada nahi karte balki jakar Baccho ko Jyada bigaad detey hai,.. “kaha hai mera baccha, Subha se nahi dikha, kis kis ko Maara? bohot accha kiya” Subhan’Allah.

Baccha bolta hai Accha! Baap se tou strong support mil raha hai mujhe. ab mai kuch bhi kar ke aau tou Baap ladne ke liye tayyar hai meri taraf se.

Yaad rakhiye “Jin Ghar me Baap Baccho ko aise kaamo me support nahi karte un Ghar ke Bacche bahar ladna bhi pasand nahi karte, kyunki unhe maloom hai ke agar hum ladenge tou Baap ulta hume hi pitega.” Aur jin ghar me Baap hi kehta hai ke “Jao ladho! hum tumhare piche khade hai..” is tarha se targib dete hai galat kaamo ke liye wo Bacche bhi kaise Gundey nikaltey hai aur Baadme Baap ko bhi thoktey aur maarte hai ,.. kyun tou usne tarbiyat hi yahi di Apne Bacche ko.

✦ Baap ki Zimmedari :

Lihaja Baap ka role Aulad ki Tarbiyat me hai lekin mukhtalif hai maa ke mukable me. Maa ka role ye hai ke wo teacher hai jo sikhati rahengi, aur Baap ka role Examiner ka hai jo aa kar test lega  ka.

Jaise ke “kya kya sikha aaj ?,.. kya hua kaise raha tumhara muamla dinbhar ka ?,.. koi galat kaam tou nahi kiya aaj ?,.. Nasihat suni maa ki ?,.. School aur tuition gaye they ? ,. Arbi ki kitni tayyari hui ? ,.. falah aur falah is tarha sikhana beharhaal Baap ki Zimmedari me se hai.

Maa ki tarbiyat ke baad bacche ke liye 2 hi log hai. Ek Baap aur Dusra Ustad (Teacher). Ye do log hai jo iski tarbiyat Ghar se bahar karenge.

Jaisa ke tum yaha ja rahe ho tou aisa jao,.. logon ko Salam karo Beta,.. Masjid aise jaya karo,.. Saff me aise khadey raha karo,.. logon ko taklif na dena,.. padosiyo ko mat satana. is tarha se bahar ka role Baap ada karega aur uskey teacher, ustad ada karenge. ye do log ab aham Shakhsiyat hai Maa ke baad Zindagi me.

Tou jaha Maa Ghar me tarbiyat kar rahi hai, Kalimaat sikha rahi hai, usi tarha Baap usey bahar ke Aadab aur Akhlaq Sikhayega.

۞ Luqman (Alaihi Salam) ki Apne Bete ko Nasihate Baap ke liye Namuna hai :

Surah Luqman me Aap gour kijiye ke kya nasihate karte hai Luqman (Alaihi Salam) apne bete ko:

" Aye mere bete! Allah ki hi Ibadat karna, uske sath kisiko Sharik na thehrana, aur Namaz qayam karna, Roza rakhna,.. Takabbur mat karna, aur yaad Rakhna ke tum Gunaah chahe ek Patthar ke Andar karo ! Allah usko logon ke samne Zahir karega, khule chupe koi burayi na karna".

– (Mafhoom-e-Quran; Surah Luqman)

♥ SubhanAllah! tou Luqman (Alaihi Salam) ki Nasihate ek mukaam rakhti hai ke waisa role ada karey walid hazraat apni aulad ki tarbiyat me.

To be continue …