Thursday, October 31, 2024
Walidain ke Nafarman ki Sazaa
۞ Apne maa baap ko uff bhi na kaho
Aur tumharey Rab ne farmaya hai ki uskey siwa kisi ki ibadat na karo aur Maa baap (parents) ke Saath Bhalaii (neki) kartey raho aur agar tumharey samney unmein se ek ya dono budhapey ko pahunch jaye to unhey UFF bhi na kaho aur na unhey jhidako aur unsey Adab se baat karo aur unkey samney Shafqat se Aajazi ke saath jhukey raho aur kaho ki Aye Mere Rab jaisey unhoney (mere maan baap ne) mujhe Bachpan se paala hai isi tarah tu bhi un par reham farma”
📕 Surah Al-Isra 17:23-24
✦ Hadith : Abu Abdur-Rahman As-Sulami Rivayat kartey hain Abu Darda (R.A) se ki unhoney kaha RasoolAllah (ﷺ) ne faramaya “Walid (father) jannat ka darmiyana (beech ka) darwaza hai, isliye teri marzi usey zaya kar ya mehfooz rakh.”
📕 Jamia Tirmidhi, Vol 1, 1959-Hasan
✦ Hadith : Abdullah ibn Umar (R.A) se rivayat hai ki RasoolAllah (ﷺ) ne farmaya “Allah Subhanahu ki Raza walid (ya Walidain) ki khushi mein hai aur Allah Subhanahu ka Gussa Walid (ya waldain) ki narazgi mein hai”
📕 Jamia Tirmidhi, Vol 1, 1960-Hasan
✦ Hadith : Anas (R.A) se riwayat hai ki RasoolAllah (ﷺ) se badey (kabira) Gunahon ke baarey mein pucha gaya tou Aap (ﷺ) ne farmaya:
(1) Allah ke saath kisi ko Sharik karna,
(2) Waaldein ki nafarmani karna,
(3) Kisi ki Nahaq jaan lena ,
(4) aur Jhooti Gawahi dena. (ye sab Kabira Gunah hain)
📕 Sahih Bukhari, Vol 4, 2653
Wednesday, October 16, 2024
Monday, September 23, 2024
Maa Baap ko budhapa kamzor nahi karta
"Maa Baap ko unka budhapa kamzor nahi banata, balki unke bachon ka unke saath bura sulook (rawaiya) unhein kamzor kar deta hai."
Yani, maa baap ko sabse zyada dukh unke bachon ke galat rawaiye se hota hai, na ki unki umar ke badhne se. Agar bachay unki izzat na karein, ya unka khayal na rakhein, to maa baap andar se toot jaate hain.