Baap ka Kirdar Aulad ki Tarbiyat me

J). Tarbiyat ka 10th marhala :

Baap ka Kirdar Aulad ki Tarbiyat me

Aulaad ki tarbiyat me sirf Maa ka hi Nahi balki Baap ka bhi ek Aham Kirdar hai. lekin Maa se jara Mukhtalif hai. Maa ka role ye hai ke “ke dekho beta tum ye sikh jao, agar tum aisa nahi karoge tou mai tumhare walid se tumhari shikayat karungi,. fir tumhe mare tou mujhe na kehna kuch.”

Tou walid sirf Nigah Daudane par rahenge baccho par “ke kya hua beta tumhara subha se kitni baat tumne apni walida ki nahi suni.” is tarha se samjhao usey , yahi aapka aham Role hoga

Lekin afsos ki baat hai ke Aaj bohot se martaba dekha jata hai ke Walid (baap) apna role ada nahi karte balki jakar Baccho ko Jyada bigaad detey hai,.. “kaha hai mera baccha, Subha se nahi dikha, kis kis ko Maara? bohot accha kiya” Subhan’Allah.

Baccha bolta hai Accha! Baap se tou strong support mil raha hai mujhe. ab mai kuch bhi kar ke aau tou Baap ladne ke liye tayyar hai meri taraf se.

Yaad rakhiye “Jin Ghar me Baap Baccho ko aise kaamo me support nahi karte un Ghar ke Bacche bahar ladna bhi pasand nahi karte, kyunki unhe maloom hai ke agar hum ladenge tou Baap ulta hume hi pitega.” Aur jin ghar me Baap hi kehta hai ke “Jao ladho! hum tumhare piche khade hai..” is tarha se targib dete hai galat kaamo ke liye wo Bacche bhi kaise Gundey nikaltey hai aur Baadme Baap ko bhi thoktey aur maarte hai ,.. kyun tou usne tarbiyat hi yahi di Apne Bacche ko.

✦ Baap ki Zimmedari :

Lihaja Baap ka role Aulad ki Tarbiyat me hai lekin mukhtalif hai maa ke mukable me. Maa ka role ye hai ke wo teacher hai jo sikhati rahengi, aur Baap ka role Examiner ka hai jo aa kar test lega  ka.

Jaise ke “kya kya sikha aaj ?,.. kya hua kaise raha tumhara muamla dinbhar ka ?,.. koi galat kaam tou nahi kiya aaj ?,.. Nasihat suni maa ki ?,.. School aur tuition gaye they ? ,. Arbi ki kitni tayyari hui ? ,.. falah aur falah is tarha sikhana beharhaal Baap ki Zimmedari me se hai.

Maa ki tarbiyat ke baad bacche ke liye 2 hi log hai. Ek Baap aur Dusra Ustad (Teacher). Ye do log hai jo iski tarbiyat Ghar se bahar karenge.

Jaisa ke tum yaha ja rahe ho tou aisa jao,.. logon ko Salam karo Beta,.. Masjid aise jaya karo,.. Saff me aise khadey raha karo,.. logon ko taklif na dena,.. padosiyo ko mat satana. is tarha se bahar ka role Baap ada karega aur uskey teacher, ustad ada karenge. ye do log ab aham Shakhsiyat hai Maa ke baad Zindagi me.

Tou jaha Maa Ghar me tarbiyat kar rahi hai, Kalimaat sikha rahi hai, usi tarha Baap usey bahar ke Aadab aur Akhlaq Sikhayega.

۞ Luqman (Alaihi Salam) ki Apne Bete ko Nasihate Baap ke liye Namuna hai :

Surah Luqman me Aap gour kijiye ke kya nasihate karte hai Luqman (Alaihi Salam) apne bete ko:

" Aye mere bete! Allah ki hi Ibadat karna, uske sath kisiko Sharik na thehrana, aur Namaz qayam karna, Roza rakhna,.. Takabbur mat karna, aur yaad Rakhna ke tum Gunaah chahe ek Patthar ke Andar karo ! Allah usko logon ke samne Zahir karega, khule chupe koi burayi na karna".

– (Mafhoom-e-Quran; Surah Luqman)

♥ SubhanAllah! tou Luqman (Alaihi Salam) ki Nasihate ek mukaam rakhti hai ke waisa role ada karey walid hazraat apni aulad ki tarbiyat me.

To be continue …

Keep in touch with relatives and friends

  

       Keep in touch with relatives and friends

                             It's Sunnah

In Islam, the importance of maintaining family relations is paramount. The Holy Quran says, "And be careful of [your duty to] God in whose name you demand [your rights] from one another, and [to] the ties of relationship; surely God is ever watchful over you!" (4:1)

The descendent and successor of Prophet Muhammad, Imam Jafar As-Sadiq was asked about this verse. He said "It means the family relationship. Surely God the most high has ordered it to be regarded and has magnified it. Do you not observe that He has mentioned it with Himself." Maintaining the bonds of kinship is called silat ur-rahm in Arabic. The exact meaning of the word rahm is "womb." It is derived from the Arabic root word raheem which means "to have mercy on."

The Prophet ṣallallāhu ‘alayhi wa sallam (peace and blessings of Allāh be upon him) said:
“Anyone who wants to have his provision expanded and his term of life prolonged should maintain ties of kinship.” [Al Adab Al Mufrad]

Ramzan Wo Mahina Hai Jisme Quran Nazil Hua

Ramzan Wo Mahina Hai Jisme Quran Nazil Hua

Ramadan

Ramzan wo Mahina me Quran ka Nuzoo hua saari Insaniyat ki Hidayat aur Rahnumai ke liye

[Al-Quran 2:185]

Righteous will be in Pleasure

Indeed, the Righteous will be in pleasure.

Al-Quran 82:13

This verse is from Surah Al-Infitar (Chapter 82, Verse 13) of the Quran.

 It refers to the ultimate reward for the righteous, those who have lived a life of faith and good deeds, promising them eternal happiness and bliss in the hereafter.

If you're reflecting on the meaning of this verse, it's a reminder of the positive outcome for those who follow the path of righteousness. 

This verse, "Indeed, the righteous will be in pleasure" (Quran 82:13), comes from Surah Al-Infitar (The Cleaving), which focuses on the Day of Judgment, the accountability of human deeds, and the final reward or punishment based on one's actions.

Deeper Meaning and Context:

The verse describes the fate of the righteous (Al-Abrar), those who live according to the guidance of Allah, maintain faith, and perform good deeds. In Islamic teachings, righteousness isn't limited to outward acts of worship like prayer and fasting but encompasses a lifestyle of kindness, honesty, justice, and compassion towards others.

The term "pleasure" (Na'eem) used in this verse implies much more than simple joy or happiness. It refers to the eternal and perfect state of bliss in Paradise, free from any hardship, sadness, or suffering. The pleasure mentioned is both spiritual and physical, encompassing every aspect of a person's being, as Paradise is described as a place of unimaginable delights prepared for the righteous.

The Concept of Reward for the Righteous:

Islam teaches that those who follow the path of righteousness will be rewarded in the Hereafter with pleasures that far surpass any joy they might experience in this world. Some scholars suggest that this verse emphasizes that the righteous will have peace, both in terms of physical enjoyment and emotional or spiritual fulfillment.

In contrast to the punishment prepared for the disbelievers or wrongdoers (which is mentioned in other verses of the same Surah), this verse highlights the eternal reward of those who remained steadfast in their faith and actions. The pleasures of Paradise, according to other verses in the Quran, include gardens beneath which rivers flow, the company of the pure, and the most important reward: the satisfaction of Allah and His eternal pleasure with them.

Reflection for Believers:

This verse serves as a source of motivation and hope for believers. It reminds them that the trials and challenges faced in this world for the sake of righteousness and staying true to one's faith will not be in vain. Allah is fully aware of everyone's actions, and ultimate success lies with Him.

In addition, this verse underscores the Quranic theme of accountability and recompense, where everyone will be judged fairly based on their deeds and rewarded or punished accordingly.

Camel's Third Eyelid

Scientific Facts : The camel's eyes were created with exceptional power and ability that have a third eyelid. A very thin transparent eyelid allows camel to see clearly through it. 

In sandstorms, camels often close their third eyelid and keep walking. You might say that a camel can find its way through a sandstorm with its eyes closed.

• The camel has three eyelids and two layers of eyelashes to protect itself from dust and sun. To protect their eyes, camels have long eyelashes that catch most of the sand when desert winds blow sand on to their eyes. 

• If sand gets into an eye a camel has a third eyelid to get it out. The extra eyelid moves from side to side and wipes the sand away.

Quran :  Allah says in Quran: "Have they (mankind) not looked at the camel and seen how it was created (perfectly, adapted to the harsh climate of the desert with so many uniquefeatures, qualities and capabilities)?" (Surah Ghaashiya 88:17)

 In this Verse, the Creator gently urges us, in words that the Believers take as an instruction, to meditate on His creation of the camel as a creature that points to the greatness of the Creator, the perfection of His power and the beauty of His control. 

We will see that the amazing facts that science has recently discovered about the camel explain to us some of the reasons why Allah, Most High, selected this amazing creature.... 

As the other beings, camel is too, created with many characteristics and then placed on earth as a sign of the such superior excellence physical features of the Creator in creation. it has been given to the service of mankind. 

On the other hand, mankind is given the responsibility to see similar miracles of creation throughout the whole universe and know the Creator of all beings is Allah.

The profound power of reliance upon Allah

And whoever relies upon Allah - then He is sufficient for him.

Al Qur'an 65:3

Indeed, this verse from the Holy Qur'an, from Surah At-Talaq, reminds us of the profound power of reliance upon Allah. When we place our trust and reliance solely on Him, Allah becomes sufficient for us in all aspects of our lives. He is our protector, provider, and guide, and by entrusting our affairs to Him, we find peace, strength, and contentment. Relying upon Allah strengthens our faith and allows us to navigate life's challenges with confidence and resilience.