Treat your wife with Respect

Yes, Islam emphasizes treating one's spouse with kindness, respect, and honor. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:

"The best of you are those who are best to their wives."

(Hadith, narrated by Tirmidhi)

This teaching encourages Muslims to show compassion, patience, and care in their marital relationships. Islam promotes the idea that a wife should be treated with love, dignity, and fairness. Both husband and wife are seen as partners in the journey of life, with mutual rights and responsibilities toward each other.

Rizq mein Barkat

" Nikaah krne se Allah Ki taraf se aapke rizq me izafa hojata hai"

Yani, jab aap nikaah karte hain, tou Allah ki taraf se aapke maali aur aashiyaan (rizq) mein izafa hota hai. Ye baat isliye hai kyun ke nikaah Allah ki khushi aur barkat ka zariya hota hai, aur is se insaan ki zindagi mein khushiyan aur rahmat aati hain.

Help with household chores

The Prophet (peace be upon him) lived in a time when men considered themselves superior to women. Aisha explains that he used to milk the goats, mend his sandals, and patch his own clothes. When she was asked, “What did the Prophet use to do in his house?” Aisha replied, “He used to keep himself busy serving his family, and when it was the time for prayer he would go for it.” 

(Bukhari)

Aurat Apne Shauhar ke Ghar aur Uske Bacchon ki Zimmedar hai

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) ne farmaya 

"Aurat Apne Shauhar ke Ghar aur Uske Bacchon ki Zimmedar hai aur Usse Unke Baare me Poocha Jayega."

Sahih Bukhari : 7138

Sahih Muslim: 1829

Sunnat

Biwi K Saath Padhna

Aur Biwi Ko Quran Padh kar Sunana

Sunnat'e Nabi (ﷺ) Hai

Haram Rishton Ki Wajah

Haram Rishton Ki Wajah

Zina Ka Aam Hona

Aaj Ke Daur Me Zina Ko Itna Aasan Bna Liya Gaya Hai Ki Hum Ise Gunah Nahi Samjhte Hai. Kisi Na Mehram Ladka/Ladki Se Baat Karna Dosti Rakhna Humare Liye Aam Baat Hai. Ise Hum Gunah Nahi Samjhte Jabki Ye Sab Zina Ki Shuruwat Hai.

Agr Ek Ladki Barik Kapde Ya Saj Sawar Kar Bahar Nikalti Hai Bhale Hi Uski Niyat Kisi Ko Dikhane Ya Attrect Karne Ki Nahi Hai Lekin Use Dekh Kar Koi Ladka Attrect Hota Hai Ya Kuch Bure Khayal Uske Dimag Me Aate Hai Aur Use Wo Pura Kisi Aur Zariye Se Karta Hai.

To Is Gunah Ka Zariya Wo Ladki Bani Jo Behaya Ho Kar Baher Nikli Thi Matlab Wo Zina Ka Zariya Ban Gayi Aur Gunah Ki Haqdar Bhi Isliye.

Allah Ta'ala Ne Qur'an Me Mardo Ko Nichi Nazre Rakhne Aur Aurto Ko Dhank Kar Chalne Ka Hukum Diya Hai.

Zina Ki Shuruwat Nazro Se Hoti Hai.

Allah Ta'ala Qur'an Me Farmate Hai

Zina Ke Kareeb Bhi Na Jao Beshaq Ye Badi Behayai Hai Aur Bahut Hi Buri Rah Hai.

Nikah Ka Mushkil Hona

Jitna Zina Ko Aasan Kar Diya Gaya Hai Itna Hi Nikah Ko Mushkil Bana Diya Gaya Hai.

Example - Jab Kisi Shakhs Ko Bahut Bhook Lagi Ho Aur Haram Khane Ko Uske Bahut Pas Rakha Ho Aur Halal Khane Me Uske Liye Bahut Mushkil Paida Kar Di Jaye Aur Alag Alag Taur Tarike Laga Diya Jaye To Kaun Halal Ko Khane Jayega Jab Use Haram Khana Itni Aasani Se Mil Raha Ho Aur Jab Use Ye Khana Mil Jata Hai To Wo Isse Hi Bhook Mitane Lagta Hai Aur Halal Ka Sochta Bhi Nahi.

Isi Tarah Har Insan Me Khuwahishat (Sexual Desires) Ki Bhook Hoti Hai Aur Jab Ye Puri Nahi Hoti Hai Jo Jo Rasta Aasan Lagta Hai Aur Kareeb Hota Hai Use Hi Apna Lete Hai Aur Gunah Ke Shikar Ho Jate Hai.

Humne Apne Samaj Me Nikah Ko Beintehaa Mushkil Bana Diya Hai. Hazaro Rasme Aur Riwaz Aur Upar Se Itne Mehenge Tariko Se ljaat Kar Liya Hai Ki Agar Koi Chahe Bhi Nikah Karna To Wo In Wajah Se Nikah Ka Khayal Nikal Deta Hai Aur Jab Aadhi Se Zayada Jawani Guzar Jati Hai Jab Nikah Kiya Jata Hai To Ye Khuli Gumrahi Ka Sabab Nahi To Kya Hai?

Free Mixing Ka Hona

Aaj School College Me Education Ke Naam Par Ladke Ladkiyo'n Ko Saath Me Rakhte Hai Jo Khuli Behayai Hai. Shaadiyon Aur Dusre Functions Me Parde Ka Lihaz Nahi Rakha Jata Aur Sab Mixture Kar Diya Jata Hai Jisse Behayai Aur Zina Jaisi Cheez Aam Ho Jati Hai Kyuki Har Akele Mard Aurat Ke Bich Teesra Shaitan Hota Hai.

Ghar Walo Ka Zarurat Se Zayada Chhoot Dena

Parents Ka Apne Baccho Ko Hadd Se Zayada Chhoot De Dena Bhi Zina Ka Sabab Hai Matlab Parents Ka Apne Baccho Ki Koi Rok Tok Na Karna Wo Kitni Hi Der Mobile Use Kare Unke Female/Male Friends Se baat Kare Ya Ghar Se Zayada Der Baher Rahe Is Par Walidain Ka Control Na Hona Bhi Behayai Ka Zariye Hai.

Islam Se Doori

Hum Islam Se Itna Door Ho Chuke Hai Ki Aaj Zina Jaise Gunaho Me Mubtila Hai Kyuki Duniyawi Education Hum Ko Gunah Se Bachana Nahi Sikhati Balki Ulta Hum Ko Gunaho Me Aasani Kar Deti Hai. Lekin Islam Hume Gunah Kya Hai Aur Uska Anjam Kya Hai Usse Bachne Ka Tarika, Sab Kuch Sikhati Hai.

Lekin Aaj Ke Waqt Me Ek Highly Educated Insan Ko Bhi Agar Pucha Jaye Ki Qur'an Ke Kisi Ek Ayat Ka Meaning Batao To Wo Nahi Bata Payega Aur Bahut Se Logo Ko Jo Qur'an Padhna Jak Nahi Aata Islam To Door Ki Baat Hai.

Ye Duniyawi Ilm Sirf Duniya Me Hi Faida Pahucha Sakta Hai Lekin Deeni Ilm Hume Duniya Aur Akhirat Dono Me Kamyabi Ata Kar Sakta Hai. Isliye Islam Ko Jane. Apne Rab Ko Pehchane Jabhi To Hum Zina Jaise Gunaho Se Bach Payenge.

Dua

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala Tamaam Ummat Ko Zina Jaise Gunah Se Mehfooz Rakhe Aur Jo Is Gunah Me Mubtila Hai Unhe Nek Hidayat Ata Kare.

Ameen Summa Ameen