Sathi

Zindgi Me Paisa Hi Sab Kuch Nhi Hota 

Pyar Or Ehsas Krne Wala Sathi Ho 

Toh Aurat Garibi Me Bhi

Malika Jaisi Zindgi Gujar Sakti Hai!

Behtareen Sathi

Shohar Ke Liye Biwi Aur Biwi Ke Liye Shohar Se Acha Koi Dost Nahi Hai Kyun Ke Ye Wahid Aise Dost Hai Jo Behtareen Mashwara Denge Halat Ache Ho Ya Bure Dono Ko Sath Milkar Samna Karna Hai 

Biwi k huqooq

Aurto ka Haq Mardo par waisa hi hai jaisa Dastoor ke Mutabiq (Mardo ka haq) Aurato par hai, Al batta mardo ko unn par fazeelat hasil hai.

(Quran 2:228)

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Isi Tarha Allah Ke Rasool (ﷺ) ki Aahadees me farmaya ki,

Aurato se behtar Sulook karo kyunki Aurat pasli se paida ki Gayi hai aur pasli ka sab se zyada tedha hissa woh hai jo uska buland hissa hai.. Agar tu Usey Seedha karne lage ga tou Usey Thodh dega aur agar Chodh dega tou Tedhi hi Rahegi, Lihaza Aurto se Accha Sulooq karo.

(Bukhari 3331)

Aur dastoor ke Mutabiq Tumhari Biwiyo ki khuraaq aur Phoshaaq tumhare Zimme hai. (Hadith: Abu Dawud 1905)

Jis ki Do Biwiya ho aur woh Unn me se Ek ki taraf hi Mayeel (Atract) ho tou woh Qayamat ke Din is Haal me Aayega ke uska Ek Pehlu Jhuka hoga" (Hadith: Abu Dawud 2133)

Albatta woh umoor jinn me adal mumkin na ho jaise Mohabbat aur Dil ki Khushi tou in par khawind par khuch gunah nhi.

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) se phucha gaya ke biwi ka mard par kya haq hai tou aap ne farmaya ke,

Jab tu khana khae tou Usey khana khila aur ja tu Pehne tou Usey bhi Pehnna aur uske Muuh par na Maar, Usey bura bhala Kahe na Uss se Qata Talluq kar magar yeh ke Ghar ke Andar Andar.

 (Abu Dawud 2142)

Yaani kisi baat par Naraaz ho tou Usey Ghar se Dusri jagah na bhagao

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)ne farmaya ke,

Aye Allah! yeh meri taqseem aise muamle me hai jis me mera ikhtyaar hai aur jiss baat me tera ikhtyaar hai, mera nahi uss par mujhey malamat na farmana. 

(Hadith: Abu Dawud 2134)

Agar tum chaaho bhi to apni Biwiyo ke Darmiyaan Adal na kar sakoge.

(Quran; Surah Nisa; 4:129)

Allah Rabbul Izzat Quran-e Kareem me farmata hai:

Aur Biwiyo ke saath Acchi tarah raho saho.

(Quran 4:19)

Shauhar - Biwi ke liye in baton ka apnana khaas zaroori hai

Shauhar - Biwi ke liye in baton ka apnana khaas zaroori hai

Islam me shauhar aur biwi ke huqooq barabar hain lekin yaqeenan ek jaise nahi hai (they are equal but not similar). Allah ne dono ko alag fitrat par banaya hai, dono ke kaam alag alag hote hain. Kuch huqooq me shauhar bartari hasil karta hai aur kuch huqooq me biwi bartari hasil karti hai. Lekin Shariyatan ke hisab se dono ke huqooq barabar hote hain.

Rishta wahi kamyab hota hai jisko nibhane ki chahat dono taraf se ho. Isliye lihaza Shauhar - Biwi dono ko apne huqooq samjhna chahiye aur uspe amal karna chahiye

Allah Ta'ala Quran me Farmate Hain,

Wo (biwiya) tumhare liye libaas hain aur tum unke liye libaas ho 

(Quran 2:187)

Libaas insan ki zinat badhata hai aur uske aib chhupata hai. Isi tarah shohar aur biwi ko bhi ek dusre ke aib chhupana chahiye aur dusro ke saamne zaahir nahi karne chahiye aur koi galti ho jaaye to narmi ke saath use sahi baat samjhani chahiye aur galat fehmiyo ki wajah se paida hone wale burai (mis understanding) se hamesha bachna chahiye aur ek dusre ki izzat ki hifazat karni chahiye aur ek dusre ki khubiya par nazar rakhna chahiye, khud bhi hamesha aise kaam karne chahiye ke ek dusre ki izzat badhe.

 ۝  Aapas me mohabbat rakhen aur ek dusre par bharosa rakhe aur ek dusre se achhi tarah rahe.

 ۝Ek dusre ki acchaiyo par nazar rakhe aur kamiyo ko aur mamooli galtiyo ko nazar andaz kare.

 ۝ Ek dusre ko sahi raay (sggestion) de aur islam seekhne aur us par amal karne ka bolte rahen. Aur ek dusre ki Akhirat ki fikr karen

 ۝Dusro ke saamne sharm aur haya se pesh aayen, aur aisa koi kaam na karen, jisse ek dusre ki izzat kam ho. Ek dusre ke raaz ya kamiyo ko chhupa kar rakhe, aur dusro ke saamne na bataen.

 ۝ Ek dusre ki jaiz zaroorato ka khayal rakhe. Mard halaal rozi kama kar laaye aur ghar ka kharcha aur apni biwi ki zarooraton ko pura kare Aur Aurat uski halaal kamai se khaane ka aur dusri zaroorato ka khayal rakhe. Aur uske halal rizq par shukr aur sabr kare aur ghar ka, maal ka aur rishtedaro ka aur ghar walo ka khayal rakhe.

 ۝Ek dusre ke liye wafadar hon, shauhar kisi gair aurat ke baare mein ya biwi kisi paraye mard ke baare mein na soche, na usse taalluk (relation) rakhe. Apne humsafar ke samne kisi gair mehram ki tareef naa karen aur naa hi dusron se compare karen aur naa kisi gair mehram se dosti rakhen

 ۝ Ek dusre ke Rishtedaaro ki izzat kare aur unse acchi tarah mile.

 ۝ Kisi bhi musibat, bimari, pareshani mein ek dusre ke saath rahen, aur ek dusre ko himmat dilane waali baat karen. Aur Koi galti ho jaaye to us baat ko aaram se, pyar se samjhayen

 ۝ Aisa koi kaam na kare, jisse ek dusre ke liye dil mein shak paida ho. Agar shauhar ko kuch kaam ya tarika pasand nahi to biwi iska dhyan rakhe, aur agar biwi ko kuch baat pasand nahi to shauhar dhyan rakhe.

 ۝ Allah Ta'ala se ek dusre ke liye dunya aur aakhirat me bhalai ki aur khairo barkat ki aur salaamati ki dua kare. Jab Shauhar Biwi ek dusre ko pyar se dekhte hain to Allah dono ko khush hokar (pyar se) dekhta hai.

 ۝Agar in sab cheezon ko ek tarfa nibhaya jaa raha hai to, rishta ek na ek din kamzoor pad jayega ya toot jayega. Jab dono taraf se nibhaya jaa raha hai to wahi rishta waqt ke sath mazboot hota hai. Shauhar-Biwi ka rishta bahut pyara hota hai, ek dusre ke sath pyar mohabbat se rahiye.

 ۝ Jo nikah karne wale hain, koshish karen ki ek nek Akhlaaq aur deendar insan se karne ki. Nek Akhlaaq hi hain jo zindagi ko khoobsurat banati hai.

Allah Hum sab ko nek humsafar se nawazen.

Allah har Shauhar - Biwi ko ek dusre ko samajhne, ek dusre ki izzat karne, ek dusre ka khayal rakhne, ek dusre se pyar karne wala, fikar karne wala, bharosa kaayam rakhne wala bana de, ek dusre ki Akhirat ki fikr karne wala banade.

Source : @flower_of_jannaah

A good life partner

"A good life partner is a blessing of Allah" means that finding a compatible, loving, and supportive partner in life is not just a matter of personal effort or luck, but a divine favor and gift from Allah. In Islam, marriage is viewed as half of one's faith, and having a righteous partner helps in building a life based on Islamic values, mutual respect, and understanding.

Here’s how this idea can be explained:

1. Spiritual Growth : A good life partner encourages you to grow spiritually, reminding you of your religious obligations, helping you stay on the right path, and supporting you in strengthening your connection with Allah.

2. Emotional Support : In life’s ups and downs, a righteous partner provides emotional support, helping to endure challenges with patience (sabr) and gratitude (shukr). This emotional bond is key to maintaining harmony and peace.

3. Family and Community : A good partner helps in building a strong family based on love, compassion, and shared values. Together, you raise the next generation in an environment of faith, kindness, and morality.

4. Peace and Tranquility (Sakinah) : In Surah Ar-Rum (30:21), Allah describes marriage as a source of peace, love, and mercy between spouses:

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.”

This verse highlights how a good partner brings comfort and peace into one's life, fostering a relationship built on love and mercy, which is a clear sign of Allah’s blessing.

Thus, a good life partner is more than just a companion—he or she is a source of happiness, growth, and guidance, all of which are blessings from Allah meant to make life fulfilling and aligned with divine wisdom.

Miya Biwi

Miya Biwi Life Achi aur khus khushal bana ni hai to din main sirf ek baar allah taala se sache dil se dua karo. 

Ya Allah taala meri miya biwi life ko hamesha bahetrin. rakhna...

Phir Dekho Allah Taala kya karta hai