Aurat Ko Parda Kis Se Karna Hai ?
Aurat per parda behad zaruri hai lekin aaj logo ko bilkul pata nahi k kis se parda karna behad zaruri hai
Har Gair Mehram Mard Khwa Ajnabi Ho Khwa Ristedaar Bahar Rehta Ho Ya Ghar Ke Andar Har Ek Se Parda Karna Aurat Par Farz Hai.
Han Un Mardo Se Jo Aurat Ke Mehram Hon Unse Parda Karna Aurat Par Farz Nahi. Jaise Baap, Dada, Chacha, Mamu, Nana, Bhai, Bhatija, Bhanja, Pota, Nawasa, Khusr (father-in-law) In Logon Se Parda Karna Jaruri Nahi Hai.
Bhot se logo ki soch hai k dewar se parda nahi bhi kare toh koi masla nahi, bhot se gharo me dewar k sath bila zarurt baat mazak kiya jata hai
Dewar Aurat Ke Haq Me Esa Hi Khatarnak Hai Jaise Mout. Aur Aurat Ko Dewar Se Isi Tarah Door Bhagna Chahiye Jis Tarah Log Mout Se BhagTe Hain.
(Mishkat Shareef, jild:2,Safa: 268)
Jo Log kahte hai hum khule mijaz ke hai toh
yeh ek baar zarur padhe. dewar se hasi mazak aur Gair zaruri baat krna islam bilkul pasand nahi karta
Kuch gharo me Ye Bohat Hi Galat Khilafe Shariat Riwaj Hai Ki Auraten Apne Dewar Se Bilkul Parda Nahi Karti Balki Dewaro Se Hansi Mazak Aur In Ke Sath Hatha Payi Tak Karne Ko Bura Nahi Samajti.
Halan Ke Dewar Aurat Ka Mehram Nahi Hai Is Liye Dusre Tamam Gair Mehram Mardon Ki Tarah Aurton Ko Dewaron Se Parda Karna Farz Hai Balki Hadees Shareef Me Toh Yaha Tak Dewaron Se Parde Ki Takeed Hai Ki...
Chacha ka beta, mamu ka beta khala ka beta, phuphun ka beta bhi ladki k liye Gair Mahram hai iss se parda lazmi hai.
Yaha humre gharo me inn ke sath ladkiya hasi mazak Karti hai be parda samne aajati hai, na sar per Duppatta hota hai na nigho me sharm o haya
Inn sab se bhi parda lazmi hai yeh bhi dusre gair mahram ki hi tarah hai. lehaza bila zarurt in se baat na kare toh bahter hoga.
aaj ka mahol itna khaternak naak hogaya k imaan ko sambhale rakhna muskil hogaya hai
shadiyo me dewar kursiya Khubsurat pardo se sazi hui hai aur aurate be parda aaram se ghum phir rahi hai
yaha tak dekha gaya k dulhan ki bahene dulhe ke bhai se hasi mazak aur close hojati hai
Allah raham kare hmre halat per
Nikkah toh sunnat hai ek taraf sunnat toh ada ki jarahi hai dusri taraf gunah pe gunah
Ladkiyo se guzarish hai iss gunah se khudko bachaye aur durso ko bhi salah dijiye
Ladko ko bhi chahiye nigha niche rakhe apko parde ka hukum nahi hai lekin nigha niche rakhe, nigah niche rahegi toh gunah bhi kam honge
ladko ko bhi chahiye ke wo apne bheno aur
ghar k aurto ko parde me rahne ki sakht
takid karetake wo iss gunah se bache
ALLAH HUM SABKO NEEK HIDAYAT AATA FARMAYE.....
Ameen
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