Biwi k huqooq

Aurto ka Haq Mardo par waisa hi hai jaisa Dastoor ke Mutabiq (Mardo ka haq) Aurato par hai, Al batta mardo ko unn par fazeelat hasil hai.

(Quran 2:228)

Koi Momin Mard, Momina Aurat, Yaani Apni Biwi se Bhugz (nafrat) na rakkhe, kyunki agar Us sey uss ki koi Aadat Napasand hai tou koi dusri pasand bhi hogi. 

(Muslim 1467)

Isi Tarha Allah Ke Rasool (ﷺ) ki Aahadees me farmaya ki,

Aurato se behtar Sulook karo kyunki Aurat pasli se paida ki Gayi hai aur pasli ka sab se zyada tedha hissa woh hai jo uska buland hissa hai.. Agar tu Usey Seedha karne lage ga tou Usey Thodh dega aur agar Chodh dega tou Tedhi hi Rahegi, Lihaza Aurto se Accha Sulooq karo.

(Bukhari 3331)

Aur dastoor ke Mutabiq Tumhari Biwiyo ki khuraaq aur Phoshaaq tumhare Zimme hai. (Hadith: Abu Dawud 1905)

Jis ki Do Biwiya ho aur woh Unn me se Ek ki taraf hi Mayeel (Atract) ho tou woh Qayamat ke Din is Haal me Aayega ke uska Ek Pehlu Jhuka hoga" (Hadith: Abu Dawud 2133)

Albatta woh umoor jinn me adal mumkin na ho jaise Mohabbat aur Dil ki Khushi tou in par khawind par khuch gunah nhi.

Rasool Allah (ﷺ) se phucha gaya ke biwi ka mard par kya haq hai tou aap ne farmaya ke,

Jab tu khana khae tou Usey khana khila aur ja tu Pehne tou Usey bhi Pehnna aur uske Muuh par na Maar, Usey bura bhala Kahe na Uss se Qata Talluq kar magar yeh ke Ghar ke Andar Andar.

 (Abu Dawud 2142)

Yaani kisi baat par Naraaz ho tou Usey Ghar se Dusri jagah na bhagao

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)ne farmaya ke,

Aye Allah! yeh meri taqseem aise muamle me hai jis me mera ikhtyaar hai aur jiss baat me tera ikhtyaar hai, mera nahi uss par mujhey malamat na farmana. 

(Hadith: Abu Dawud 2134)

Agar tum chaaho bhi to apni Biwiyo ke Darmiyaan Adal na kar sakoge.

(Quran; Surah Nisa; 4:129)

Allah Rabbul Izzat Quran-e Kareem me farmata hai:

Aur Biwiyo ke saath Acchi tarah raho saho.

(Quran 4:19)

A good life partner

"A good life partner is a blessing of Allah" means that finding a compatible, loving, and supportive partner in life is not just a matter of personal effort or luck, but a divine favor and gift from Allah. In Islam, marriage is viewed as half of one's faith, and having a righteous partner helps in building a life based on Islamic values, mutual respect, and understanding.

Here’s how this idea can be explained:

1. Spiritual Growth : A good life partner encourages you to grow spiritually, reminding you of your religious obligations, helping you stay on the right path, and supporting you in strengthening your connection with Allah.

2. Emotional Support : In life’s ups and downs, a righteous partner provides emotional support, helping to endure challenges with patience (sabr) and gratitude (shukr). This emotional bond is key to maintaining harmony and peace.

3. Family and Community : A good partner helps in building a strong family based on love, compassion, and shared values. Together, you raise the next generation in an environment of faith, kindness, and morality.

4. Peace and Tranquility (Sakinah) : In Surah Ar-Rum (30:21), Allah describes marriage as a source of peace, love, and mercy between spouses:

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.”

This verse highlights how a good partner brings comfort and peace into one's life, fostering a relationship built on love and mercy, which is a clear sign of Allah’s blessing.

Thus, a good life partner is more than just a companion—he or she is a source of happiness, growth, and guidance, all of which are blessings from Allah meant to make life fulfilling and aligned with divine wisdom.

Alhamdulillah

The statement "You are exactly what I always wanted & prayed for. Blessed to have you in my life" reflects deep gratitude, love, and appreciation for someone significant in your life. Here's a more detailed explanation of what this means:

1. Fulfillment of Desires and Prayers :

The phrase "You are exactly what I always wanted & prayed for" expresses that the person being addressed is the fulfillment of long-held hopes and dreams. In a spiritual sense, it suggests that the speaker has been making prayers (duas) for a partner or companion who possesses specific qualities, and now that person has come into their life. It reflects both personal desire and trust in divine timing.

2. Acknowledging a Divine Blessing :

"Blessed to have you in my life" shows recognition that this special relationship is not just the result of chance but a blessing from Allah. In Islam, we often express gratitude for the people in our lives because we believe everything good comes from Allah. By saying this, the speaker is acknowledging that having such a person in their life is a form of divine mercy and favor.

3. Gratitude and Appreciation :

This phrase carries a deep sense of gratitude—not just for the presence of the person but also for their role in the speaker's life. The term "blessed" implies that this person has brought joy, peace, and perhaps spiritual growth. It indicates that the relationship has enriched the speaker's life in significant ways, making them feel thankful both emotionally and spiritually.

4. Emotional Connection :

The overall sentiment reflects a deep emotional bond, where the speaker feels that this person completes or enhances their life. It communicates that the relationship has brought them happiness, fulfillment, and contentment—qualities one often seeks in meaningful relationships, especially in a marriage or deep friendship.

5. Spiritual Fulfillment :

For someone with faith, praying for a good life partner or companion and having those prayers answered is a profound spiritual experience. It signifies that Allah has responded to their requests in a way that aligns with their deepest wishes and needs. The use of "Alhamdulillah" (in the elaborated version) emphasizes gratitude to Allah for making this happen.

In essence, this phrase is a beautiful way of expressing love, appreciation, and recognition that the person is a cherished gift from Allah, whose presence brings immense joy and fulfillment.

Nek Aurat

Rasool Allah (ﷺ)Ne Farmaya :

Duniya Ki Sabse Badi Nemat Nek Aurat Hai."

[Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1467]